Why They Act in Love… Then Stop (The Evolutionary Reason)

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⏳TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 How Do You Know If They Loved You? What Evolutionary Psychology Says
1:09 The Two Male Mating Strategies (Pair Bonding vs Casual)
2:03 Why Men Lose Interest After the Honeymoon Phase
4:15 Why Women Stay With Men They Don't Love
6:54 Birth Control Doesn't Change Your Stone Age Brain
8:00 What Real Love Actually Feels Like (According to Science)
8:26 Key Takeaways

Have you ever had someone completely obsessed with you one month, then cold and distant the next? In this video, I break down the evolutionary psychology behind why this happens — and how to tell the difference between real love and something that just looks and feels like it. You'll learn about the two male mating strategies (pair bonding vs casual), why men lose interest after the honeymoon phase, and why women often stay in relationships with men they're not truly in love with. We'll also cover why birth control doesn't switch off your stone age brain — and what that means for modern relationships. If you've ever wondered whether someone truly loved you, or whether what you felt was love or just attachment, this video will give you a clear, science-backed framework to understand it. This is not a lecture — just a straightforward breakdown of human mating psychology that might completely change how you see your love life. If you're curious about evolutionary psychology, attraction, and relationships, subscribe for more videos like this.

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📚 BOOKS/PODCASTS:
🎧 Beat Your Genes Podcast
🎧 DarkHorse Podcast
🎧 Mating Matters
🎧 Modern Wisdom
🎧 Species
📖 The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating — David Buss
📖 A Hunter-Gatherer's Guide to the 21st Century: Evolution and the Challenges of Modern Life – Heather Heying & Bret Weinstein
📖 The Female Brain — Louann Brizendine
📖 The Paradox of Choice: Why More Is Less — Barry Schwartz
📖 The Pleasure Trap: Mastering the Hidden Force That Undermines Health and Happiness — Douglas J. Lisle & Alan Goldhamer
📖 The Case Against the Sexual Revolution — Louise Perry
📖 Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less — Greg McKeown
📖The Mating Mind: How Sexual Choice Shaped the Evolution of Human Nature —Geoffrey Miller