How to Protect Your Marriage: Don't gossip about your spouse or partner.

Описание: One of the things I like to teach people in our “Between Men and Women” Alberta Couples retreat: http://www.betweenmenandwomen.com/cou...
is that unsavory gossip about your spouse or partner can taint your relationship/marriage with negativity.
Be very mindful of what it is you are enrolling other people in regarding your spouse them in and if it’s a little bit unsavoury…not so great…don’t do it. See what kind of a difference it can make and how it can protect your relationship and your marriage.
Something could happen and we can find ourselves saying, “Oh ya…my wife is so scatter brained”…or “my husband…he’s never on time” or “he seems kind of lazy to me” or whatever it is we say based on our reaction to what happened.
Here’s the problem with saying some of these things…as soon as you say something there is no taking that back. Now you have left the person you were talking with something about your partner and your partner is not even there to speak for themselves.
Even if you think it’s no big deal, you have dumped this little bit of negativity over there with another person. Now it’s very likely that the next time they see your partner, what will be in the background are your judgments. They may even be thinking something like “oh…here’s the lazy person” and not even realize it.
With our comments, we can leave others with an unsavory opinion or a judgment. This really does no one any good.