How does a death affect an MLCer--in the midst of their crisis?

Описание: I am just wondering if or how a death of someone close in our family would affect him? I'm not sure if he is a Boomerang or a Vanisher. On the day of Bomb Drop he left and never came back except to do things around the house so we can sell it. He reached out quite a bit at first, but now it’s only for practical purposes maybe every 2 weeks. He went to a lawyer and paid the retainer recently. I am just curious if a death in the family would make him spiral more? I don’t believe I am standing anymore. I'm ready to be done, but just curious how that would play out. I expect this death in the next year.

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