Women Are Not Your Competition: Friendships, Anxiety & Comparison (With Sally Probett) (S1:E2)

Описание: What does it really mean to grow up as a girl today?


In this episode of To All The Girls Out There, I sit down with my secondary school form tutor for an honest and grounding conversation— about anxiety, comparison, friendships, womanhood, and learning to trust yourself.


We talk about why so many girls feel pressure to grow up too fast, how anxiety can turn into being “addicted to stress,” and why perfectionism can stop you from actually living your life. From struggling to make decisions, fearing getting things wrong, and feeling like you always need to explain yourself — to learning how to give yourself grace and breathe again.


My secondary school form tutor shares her perspective as a teacher and a woman, opening up about anxiety, therapy, confidence, and why healing doesn’t erase who you are — it helps you become more yourself. We also talk about why women are taught to compete with each other, how patriarchy shows up in subtle everyday ways, and why women are not your competition.


We get into:

• Anxiety, stress, and feeling scared to make decisions
• Growing up too fast and the pressure to be perfect
• Friendship struggles, comparison, and girlhood at school
• Asking for what you want and being more direct
• Womanhood, confidence, and choosing your own path
• Why healing doesn’t mean losing your personality
• Finding your people after leaving school
• Learning to appreciate the small moments in life

🤍 Connect with Sally


I’m so grateful to Sally for this conversation and for the impact she’s had on so many young people — in and beyond the classroom.


You can find her here:

• LinkedIn: Sally Probett (  / sally-p-653bb5336  )
• Her business: Her Sunday Society (https://hersundaysociety.co.uk/) — a brilliant platform she co-founded with her friend, doing meaningful work to support Women🌱

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