ASMR | Are You In a Toxic Relationship? 14 Red Flags to Look Out For (Should You Stay?)

Описание: Well hello! ♥ In today's video I'll be going through some of the biggest red flags of a toxic relationship. These will be present mostly in romantic relationships, but a lot of these can apply to friendships or even family too. As I said, just because someone displays ONE of these things (with the exception of exhibiting a few or more signs of gas lighting, which IS a form of emotional abuse) doesn't mean they are necessarily toxic and you should get out immediately--we are all human. But if they display more than just a couple of these, that's a good sign that you DESERVE BETTER and DESERVE MORE and this is not a relationship to be engaged in and you should get out. Let me know if you have more red flags to add to the list! And if you find YOU are the toxic one (we've all had those moments lol rip) it's not too late to work toward healthy change ♥ (also, if you fear leaving a relationship could be dangerous, or you fear for your physical safety or those around you, PLEASE be careful with how you leave and make sure to do so in a way that is going to be safe for you. There are so many resources and organizations that can assist you in how to leave safely!!)

If you are not in physical danger to leave a relationship, I made a video recently on how to break up with someone step by step along with tips. Stay safe and well, my friends.    • ASMR | Breakups--How To Break Up with Some...  

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Timestamps:
1:27 Gas lighting (and examples)
8:15 "My ex was crazy"/always talks about their ex
10:11 constantly restating boundaries
11:14 actions don't match words
11:38 treating/talking about others poorly
12:36 you're kept a secret/don't meet people close to them
13:45 your friends/family don't like them
14:34 your anxiety/depression increases
15:30 they don't take responsibility/make excuses
16:25 you're put on a pedestal
17:30 don't accept you as you are/"you'd be better if..."
18:52 every discussion is an argument/name calling
20:30 they hear, but don't listen
21:25 stonewalling

ASMR stands for autonomous sensory meridian response which is a fancy way of saying a phenomenon from certain sounds that produce tingles and/or relaxation. Tingles usually start on the scalp and travel down your back. ASMR is great for relaxation, insomnia, tingles, and can be extremely helpful for some people that struggle with anxiety/panic attacks and/or depression (like me!)

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