"You Better Not Leave That Good Job!": How To Deal With A Mother Who Says This

Описание: How many of us have heard something like, "you better not leave that good job with good benefits" from our mothers when we talk about our toxic job?

When your mother warns you not to leave that “good job with good benefits,” it might come from love—but it can also shut down your freedom, your peace, and your voice. 💔 In this eye opening conversation with a Toxic Job Survivor and her mother, we will explore how family expectations and generational fears can keep you trapped in a workplace that’s silently destroying you.

We will dive into:

The hidden cost of staying when your mother’s voice echoes fear of financial insecurity;

How your mother’s projection of “What about bills? What about healthcare?” can compound your own doubts; and

Strategies for centering your voice and values when familial love unintentionally reinforces workplace harm.

This is not just a discussion—it is medicine for your soul. If you have ever felt torn between your own well-being and pleasing your mother, this LIVE is for you.

Special Guests: Dr. Jillian Whatley & Mrs. Ruby Whatley
Website: https://www.jillianwhatley.com/
Book: "Where Is My Teacher: A Story For Children Who Have Lost Their Teacher"
https://www.amazon.com/Where-My-Teach...

Previous Videos with Dr. Whatley:
"Sis, Get Your Foot Off My Neck - Part 2: When The Workplace Bully Is A Black Woman"
https://www.youtube.com/live/sKClFpzk...
"Your Job Is Not Who You Are: How To Pivot & Reclaim The Life You Deserve"
https://www.youtube.com/live/2AEHOvv7...
Previous Video with Dr. Whatley & Mrs. Ruby Whatley
"How Our Families Are Harmed By Toxic Jobs: Black Women & Toxic Jobs"
https://www.youtube.com/live/8MpG3MNK...

Resources:
The 2nd Annual Job Liberation Virtual Summit For Black Women Replay Link:
https://2025jobliberationsummit.heysu...

🦋**Join the the Butterfly YouTube Membership Community For Black Women**🦋   / @liftingasweclimbconsulting  

2025 Financial Masterclass For Black Women REPLAY
https://liftingasweclimbconsulting.th...

✨ Download your FREE Job Liberation Toolkit here: https://tinyurl.com/liberation-toolkit

➡️ Access my FREE training on how to leave a toxic job here: https://bit.ly/toxic-job-training

💲Purchase the "Save Yourself Masterclass: Channel Your Inner Harriet and Save Yourself From That Hostile Toxic Job With Your Sanity & Your Coins!" Replay:
https://liftingasweclimbconsulting.th...

➡️ PURCHASE MY WORKBOOK, Welcome to Your Queendom, to help you reconnect to yourself if you're looking to exit a toxic work environment: https://manifestinghealing.kit.com/pr...

➡️ SUBSCRIBE TO MY FREE NEWSLETTER: https://manifestinghealing.kit.com/ne...

AFFILIATE LINK:
D'IYANU African Clothing (Use code LIFT25 at checkout for 15% off)
Shop D'IYANU clothing using my affiliate link here: https://diyanu.myshopify.com/discount...

🚨 Legal Disclaimer: Please note that this video does not provide psychological services or therapy. Dr. Kimani shares personal experiences, offers valuable resources, and provides information to empower Black women who are toxic job survivors.

Who am I? Dr. Kimani Norrington-Sands, a Black Woman Licensed Clinical Psychologist and a Toxic Job Survivor with more than 20 years of experience providing mental health and consultation services. I'm on a mission to help Black women leave and heal from toxic jobs.

To learn more about my own experiences in a toxic job, watch the videos below in which I am interviewed by Stephanie Perry as well as Glamazini.
• Black Women Leaving Toxic Jobs ✌🏾 w/ ...
https://www.youtube.com/live/YucMGqDe...

🌿Therapy and Healing Resources:
• Watch "How Do You Find a Black Therapist?" https://www.youtube.com/live/5Z1TiYp6...
• The Loveland Foundation: https://thelovelandfoundation.org/

#blackwomen

🎙️ New to streaming or looking to level up? Check out StreamYard and get $10 discount! 😍 https://streamyard.com/pal/d/60206426...