Your "Discipline" Might Be Dysregulation with Dr. Derek Hrabovsky | EP 72

Описание: If your success is costing your health, your peace, or your relationships, something is off. In this episode of the Higher Alignment Podcast, I sat down with physician and executive coach Derek Hrabovsky to break down a game changing distinction that explains why so many high performers look successful on paper but feel like they are falling apart behind the scenes.


We unpack the difference between capability and capacity. Capability is what you can do, your skills, competence, and output. Capacity is what it costs you to do it, your nervous system bandwidth, your ability to hold pressure, recover, stay clear, and remain relationally present. Derek explains how leaders can rely on capability for years while their capacity quietly depletes, showing up as reactivity, narrowed judgment, inability to switch off, and compulsive coping like alcohol, sugar, work, or intensity chasing.


We also explore how unmet core needs drive these patterns, why shame and self judgment make it worse, and why most workplaces are built to extract from people instead of replenish them. This conversation is a wake up call and a roadmap. Because the goal is not to perform at all costs. The goal is to lead, live, and succeed without losing yourself in the process.





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Key Takeaways


1. Capability gets results; capacity protects your health, relationships, and judgment. You can be highly capable and still be running on fumes.

2. Compulsive coping is data, not a moral failure. It's a warning light that your nervous system needs support and your core needs aren't being met.

3. Too many options = dysregulation. When you're hungry for everything and trying to fix everything, regulate first—then simplify and choose what matters.


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Episode Highlights: capability vs capacity, nervous system regulation, high performer burnout, executive burnout, leadership capacity, emotional regulation, cognitive load, stress recovery, relational presence, compulsive coping, addiction and burnout, shame and self-judgment, emotional intelligence for leaders, psychological safety, capacity-based leadership, healthcare burnout, health tech leadership, resilience vs regulation, recovery after stress, high performance without burnout, longevity for leaders, healthspan, extractive workplace culture, regenerative leadership, autonomy at work, micromanagement and burnout





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Links & Resources





LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-derek-...


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More from Minh-Thu


Learn about the Higher Alignment Program → higheralignmentconsulting.com/program (http://higheralignmentconsulting.com/...)


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