Why superficial charm feels so dangerous.

Описание: Charm is often described as a desirable trait in relationships. For many people, it signals warmth, ease, and emotional availability.

For others, charm triggers an immediate sense of caution.

In this video, I unpack why that reaction makes sense.

I share a personal moment that surprised me while watching an interview with Alison Armstrong, and why my body reacted so strongly when charm was named as a relationship asset.

• We explore the difference between healthy charm and superficial charm.
• We look at why superficial charm can feel like a betrayal.
• We talk about how our brains build models of people and why violations of those models are so destabilizing.

I also speak openly about my own experiences being pulled in by charm and why discernment matters, especially if you have been harmed before.

This video is for you if:

• You feel uneasy around very charming people
• You have been confused by relationships that looked safe at first
• You struggle to trust your instincts after betrayal
• You want to understand the difference between connection and performance

This is not about becoming guarded or cynical.
It is about learning how not to betray yourself.

⚠️ Trigger Warning:
Listener discretion is advised.

If you or someone you know is in danger:

• National Domestic Violence Hotline: thehotline.org | 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)

• SAMHSA National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357) — confidential support for substance use and mental health concerns.

Disclaimer:
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