the problem isn't life, it's you

Описание: Links to What I Use Daily
SPIRITUAL BOOKS TO READ
I’ve Decided to Live 120 Years - Ilchi Lee https://amzn.to/45OhlUk (Amazon)
Water up Fire Down - Ilchi Lee https://amzn.to/4a2BYhY (Amazon)
A New Humanity - Ilchi Lee https://amzn.to/4r2HXsL (Amazon)
The Way of Zen - Alan Watts https://amzn.to/49vnEyn (Amazon)
The Four Agreements - Don Miguel Ruiz https://amzn.to/4jMEsV0 (Amazon)
The Sermon on the Mount - Emmet Fox https://amzn.to/3ZmeVIR (Amazon)
Alcoholics Anonymous https://amzn.to/464L2R5 (Amazon)
Co-Dependents Anonymous https://amzn.to/45QjWgu (Amazon)

MY HEALTHY LIVING SUPPLIES
Healing Life tool - https://amzn.to/45GEisL (Amazon)
C60 Evo - https://amzn.to/4qoPfHw (Amazon)
Grounding Mat for Sleep https://amzn.to/45jV1lg (Amazon)
Chun Bu Kyung Wisdom Cards https://amzn.to/45ns9IZ (Amazon)

MY VIDEO GEAR
Hollyland Lark m2 Kit - https://amzn.to/4qoNJFk (Amazon)
K&F 64 Inch Tripod - https://amzn.to/4jMThHn (Amazon)
Lighting - https://amzn.to/4pMhDC8 (Amazon)
Screen Mirror - https://amzn.to/4sO4XO5 (Amazon)
Boya Mic - https://amzn.to/4b4sJPq (Amazon)
MOVO Shotgun Mic - https://amzn.to/4bIEdID (Amazon)

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I am a big fan of Amazon and many of my links to products/gear are links to those products on Amazon. I am a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for me to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and related sites. If you're here, it's likely because you need to hear this, and I know I did too. Your life and the path you're on is the right one, so don't beat yourself up when distractions come.

Life gets harder when we try to control people, outcomes, and expectations that were never ours to manage. In this video, we talk honestly about letting go of expectations, learning to accept people as they are, and finding peace through authentic living.

If you’re struggling with frustration, disappointment, or feeling stuck because others aren’t meeting your expectations, this message is for you. We explore why trying to change other people leads to suffering, how expectations are shaped by our past experiences, and why true happiness comes from internal work, not external validation.

This conversation dives into themes of personal growth, self-acceptance, mental clarity, and spiritual independence. You’ll learn why authenticity means releasing the need for approval, how to stop living according to other people’s standards, and how to choose your own path with confidence.

No one else gets to decide who you are, how fast you grow, or what your life should look like. Your journey is your own—and growth doesn’t come from pleasing others, but from being honest with yourself.

✨ Topics covered in this video:

Letting go of expectations

Why people don’t (and can’t) meet your standards

How to stop caring what others think

Authenticity and inner peace

Personal growth and self-identity

Living life on your own terms

If this message resonates with you, take a moment to reflect, breathe, and remind yourself: you’re allowed to be who you are while you grow.

❤️ Remember to love yourself.