I'm Still Not Over It (But Pretend I Am)

Описание: Some pain doesn’t expire. People love to say “time heals all wounds”—but that’s not how it works.

For me, two things still shape my life: my dad’s death and being estranged from my mom. One has a funeral, one doesn’t. Both carry weight. And no matter how much time passes, the weight doesn’t vanish—it just shifts.

In this video, I get into:

Why “closure” is a scam word when it comes to grief

What estrangement grief feels like when there’s no funeral to point to

The ball-and-button metaphor that actually explains how pain changes (but never disappears)

How guilt lingers in grief, even a decade later

Why “getting over it” is the wrong question to ask yourself

This isn’t a tidy conversation about healing. It’s real talk about what sticks, what softens, and what keeps surprising you years later.

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