You Teach People How To Treat You

Описание: In this powerful episode, master coach Tony Caliendo breaks down one of the most transformational principles for business and life: You teach people how to treat you. If you’ve ever felt undervalued, disrespected, or taken for granted—in your career, your personal life, or with clients—this episode is a game-changer.

Tony shares how setting boundaries, developing self-respect, communicating clearly, and recognizing patterns can radically shift how others treat you. He also dives into the real consequences of tolerating poor behavior and how to finally stop the cycle by owning your worth.

💡 Key Takeaways:
✅ Why people treat you the way they do—and how you’re teaching them
✅ The role of boundaries and standards in earning respect
✅ How self-worth influences every relationship
✅ Clear communication tips to reinforce your expectations
✅ Recognizing behavioral patterns (good or bad) and correcting course
✅ How this principle completely changed Tony’s coaching and real estate careers

Whether you’re a business owner, leader, entrepreneur, or just ready to upgrade your relationships, this episode will help you reset the standard for how others interact with you.

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CHAPTERS
00:00 – Intro: Why Time Is Our Greatest Asset
01:12 – The Universal Law: You Teach People How to Treat You
02:30 – Tony’s Personal Story: Marriott, Real Estate & Respect
04:05 – The Power of Alignment in Relationships
05:00 – The Role of Boundaries in Earning Respect
06:30 – Early Real Estate Mistakes & Availability Trap
08:15 – Why Self-Respect Sets the Tone
09:45 – Confidence, Self-Worth, and First Impressions
10:50 – Clear Communication: Say It or Suffer It
12:00 – Asking Clients What They Need Too
13:10 – Recognizing Patterns in Poor Treatment
14:30 – Insecurity, Imposter Syndrome & Letting Boundaries Slip
15:50 – Consequences of Tolerating Bad Behavior
17:00 – How One Harsh Client Interaction Shifted Everything
18:15 – Respect Starts with YOU
19:00 – Tony’s Coaching Client Standards & Why They Work
20:15 – The Hidden Cost of Burnout and Resentment
21:20 – Final Words: Reflect, Reclaim, Reset