A story of trust, and betrayal

Описание: THE STORY OF TRUST AND BETRAYAL
Trust so by hearing this word what came in your mind first loyalty, honesty yes you almost got it but you missed the main and important part that is love, affection, certitude.
So, I think that everyone has minimum one person in their life, whom they trust blindly that can be your parents, friends or teachers.
Trust has the biggest role in our life that includes relationships, friendship in our families.
What is trust? That’s a biggest question in itself.
Trust is like a connection, communication between persons it may vary. Trust is an emotional act that means we rely on other person’s perspective we tell them our secrets that no one knows except us. We always say them that please don’t share this; I just told this to you because I trust you.
Ever heard this phrase,
Trust is like a thin string that can be broken very easily, and it will never like what it was before.
The question is why they say this to us?
Did you ever break a string in your life? When we reconnect that broken string by a knot there are always those broken pieces peeping through that knot. So, the point is we cannot make those broken pieces into a complete sting. Similarly when you broke someone’s trust that can never be that same there will always be a knot that is like a blind spot.
So, when someone broke our trust we always say that he or she betrayed us.

So what is the betrayal?
“If someone ditched you that’s betrayal or if someone broke their promises that’s betrayal”.
The true meaning of betrayal is when someone broke our trust
Yes you are almost got it what is betrayal means.
Now let’s talk about betrayal feeling Suppose you have a friend and you trust him/her blindly wholeheartedly starts back bitching about you and you came to know about the reality of that person who is your everything, trustworthy is a fake what is the first thought came to your mind that he betrays you, your trust, your faith, your friendship. Then you start hating him that’s the common thing we all do right, your perspective about him/her is changed in a moment your mind is filling with anger, violence and hate and all of a sudden he/she came to meet you and said HEY, HOW ARE YOU what will you do most probably you want to kill that person or beat the hell out of him/her right. As the matter of fact a thought came in your mind that all of the people in this world are FAKE, I am not going to make friends being lonely is better than making friends because at the end he/she will betray you again right. THIS WHAT WE CALL BETRAYAL FEELING.
So, how to overcome about this betrayal feeling First of all, find a person to talk about your feeling because betrayal may lead to depression.
Avoid being in contact with that person for a while because this may leads to aggression and you can harm yourself mentally and physically.
Take a good care yourself find something you like to do such as listening music, playing games, writing, reading, bike riding, cooking anything you love to do this can help you to divert your mind and make you feel more realistic
The hardest and important step is Try to Forgive – Forgiving does not mean that you are condoning the act of betrayal. It means that you are choosing to move on from feelings of resentment. It can lead to empathy and compassion for those who betrayed you. It can lead to a greater sense of personal.
The main part is don’t do anything stupid because when you are dealing with betrayal many thoughts came in your mind the most common and dangerous thought is SUICIDE no don’t ever think about it because it is not a solution of anything it’s just another problem not for you but for your loved ones such as your parents, friends, colleagues and every one of those you love and who loves you can’t handle this pain.
At the end I tell you why I am writing about this betrayal feeling because I faced it dozens of times and I know how it feels, how hard to move on, how hard is to make friends, I done many wrong thinks while dealing with betrayal feeling that’s why I want to tell everyone that betrayal is just a phase of our life it’s not the end of the life always remember one line “LIVE A LIFE TO REMEMBER NOT TO REMEMBER LIFE TO LIVE”
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