How to Parent Without Yelling (And Why Tantrums Stop)

Описание: Are you tired of yelling—and still dealing with tantrums, defiance, and emotional meltdowns?


What if the reason tantrums keep happening isn’t because your child is “misbehaving,” but because something deeper isn’t being addressed?






In this episode, Greg & Rachel Denning break down the exact framework they’ve used to practice parenting without yelling—and to prevent tantrums before they start. As parents of seven, they share the six core principles that transformed their family culture from reactive and exhausting to calm, connected, and emotionally resilient.






You’ll learn why tantrums are a symptom, not the problem, and how prioritizing connection over correction eliminates the need for constant discipline. This conversation challenges the myth that punishment creates better behavior and shows how teaching, clarity, emotional co-regulation, and healthy challenge create lasting change.






They also explain why many kids simply lack the neurological ability to self-regulate, and how co-regulation—not isolation or punishment—is the missing piece for most families struggling with meltdowns.


If you’re ready to stop firefighting behavior and start building a family culture that actually works, this episode will change how you see parenting.






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Key Takeaways:


✅ Connection reduces the need for correction — discipline works best when the relationship is protected first.


✅ Tantrums are symptoms, not the problem — go upstream to unmet needs instead of reacting to behavior.


✅ Parent with clarity, not threats or bribes — vague rules create rebellion; clear teaching creates ownership.


✅ Emotional co-regulation is essential — children can’t self-regulate until they’re taught how through you.


✅ Family systems reduce chaos — routines and expectations remove friction and power struggles.


✅ Resilience is built through connection and challenge — kids grow strongest when they choose hard things with your support.






Memorable Quotes


🗣 “Connection reduces the need for correction.”


🗣 “Tantrums are a symptom of a problem—not the problem itself.”


🗣 “If you’re not getting the results you want, you need to question your parenting methods.”


🗣 “The most effective way to discipline a child is to teach them—not punish them.”


🗣 “We never correct our children at the expense of connection.”


🗣 “Children don’t need isolation when they’re overwhelmed—they need co-regulation.”


🗣 “Parenting is your most important role. Everything else is secondary.”






Chapters:


00:00 Raising Well-Adjusted Kids on the Move


00:42 Understanding Tantrums and Yelling


01:01 Prioritizing Connection Over Correction


04:13 The Importance of Connection Over Correction


05:20 Understanding the Desire for Connection


06:01 The Impact of Parental Engagement


06:10 Recognizing Attachment Issues


06:28 Daily Intentional Connection


06:47 Behavior as a Symptom, Not the Problem


07:21 Going to the Root Cause of Behavior


09:25 The Investment in Parenting Knowledge


10:39 Clarifying Expectations in Parenting


11:34 Engaging in Clear Communication


13:33 Encouraging Dialogue for Clarity


18:05 Natural Consequences and Child Empowerment


19:58 Establishing Family Systems for Smooth Parenting


22:14 Emotional Co-Regulation in Parenting


27:51 Building Resilience Through Connection and Challenge



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