93 | Are Your Toxic Muslim Parents The Cause of Your Misery?

Описание: This important podcast will address the crisis many people face when dealing with parents who are narcissists and toxic codependents. Unfortunately people who have wonderful parents will struggle to understand those who have very difficult parents and it can be easy to judge someone’s inability to honour their parents, because they cannot understand or relate to their situation.

Many people’s lives have been destroyed by toxic parents and childhood trauma, because they have children for different reasons to empaths that can range from having slaves, benefitting from the social welfare system, showing off and so on. They have been made to feel as burdens and are physically and emotionally abused to the point it has eradicated their self esteem, confidence and how others perceive them, especially when they are always bullied and judged for their past sins, which greatly hinders their self development.

The traumas and social problems toxic parents leave behind, especially those who present a religious facade in society are more problematic than a lot of other diseases. They can leave people suicidal from broken spirits, without faith and with severe spiritual and mental health issues that they pass onto the next generation.

More and more imams need to start talking about this in Friday khutbas that many parents go to listen to, as it has turned into a generational trauma. There are so many wounded souls carrying this pain with no relief in sight even after their 40s, because more emphasis is placed on the rights of parents than the rights of children.

Turning people away from seeking help, making them feel guilty and telling them that the parents are “always right” and have “great rights” is abuse. Children are not possessions and pawns, they are a trust given to us by Allah whom we need to take care of and respect.

Paradise doesn’t, and never will, lie at the feet of oppressive, abusive and cruel parents and people need to stop spreading this false Islamic information.

Parental tyranny will also backfire on toxic parents, who not only forget that they will have to answer to Allah one day, but will find themselves alone and abandoned by their children in old age, when they need them the most.

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