Why Normal Conflict Resolution Doesn't Work with High Conflict Personalities with Samantha Drum, Esq

Описание: 'WHY NORMAL CONFLICT RESOLUTION DOESN’T WORK WITH HIGH CONFLICT PERSONALITIES' is an exclusive interview with high conflict strategist Samantha Drum, Esq. In this episode we explore the definition and characteristics of high conflict people, and ways to set boundaries with them. We examine the example set by the legendary survivor Tina Turner. We discuss ways to protect yourself against litigious con artists like 'Dirty' John Meehan, and we also discuss the high conflict divorces of Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise as well as Ioan Gruffudd and Alice Evans.

TOPICS DISCUSSED:

01:07 What is a high-conflict personality?
01:45 What are high-conflict personalities combative?
03:10 Post-separation abuse
03:46 The drives of high-conflict personalities
04:30 The key traits of high-conflict people
06:19 The narcissistic injury
07:10 Perfectionism and splitting
08:20 Narcissistic fragility
08:40 Vulnerabilities that attract high conflict people
10:46 Self-reflection for survivors
10:51 The dangers of not upholding boundaries
12:43 Dysfunctional narcissism in group dynamics
14:28 Lessons from Tina Turner
16:48 Post-traumatic growth
18:00 Trauma-informed legal support
20:18 The gift of fear
21:24 Anger as a manipulation tool
22:10 Duping delight
22:56 Dirty John
25:30 The importance of evidence
26:30 Logic over emotion
27:25 Ioan Gruffudd and Alice Evans
29:00 Protecting children
30:34 Achieving a positive outcome
32:57 Detachment
34:54 Self-validation
35:35 Kinsey's Broken Record Strategy
36:45 Boundary setting
37:10 Navigating disputes with combative people
39:21 Strategic empathy
40:08 Narcissistic defense mechanisms
41:40 Overcoming smear campaigns
44:22 Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise

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RESOURCES & LINKS MENTIONED

Controlled Confrontation - the official website of Samantha Drum, Esq.at https://www.controlledconfrontation.com

O’Neil, Lorena (2023, May 25) ‘Tina Turner Was Open About Her Abuse. Now, Her Legacy Is Saving Survivors.’ Rolling Stone.

Naftulin, Julia (2023, April 16) ‘Narcissism, Psychopathy, and More - Here’s What Therapists See In Each Key Player on “Succession.”’ Insider.

Hippensteel, Chris. (2023, June 3) ‘Ioan Gruffudd’s Daughter Files Restraining Order Against Him and Girlfriend.’ The Daily Beast.

Goffard, Christopher. (2017, October 1) ‘Dirty John.’ The Los Angeles Times.

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