Incomplete love story of students from London | استخارہ | self esteem | iftikhar Ahmad usmani

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Today's story is the story of a very rich woman who was once doing a PhD in London and there she met a poor boy who had sold his land, house and animals and came to London from Pakistan so that he could get a degree and earn a living to change the situation of his family. I met the girl in London whose name was Majida and she was affectionately called Muji while the boy's name was Nasir. Majida had received a scholarship and she used to bring two thousand pounds from Pakistan to live on, while Nasir had to earn money by working as a security guard day and night. Both were the same age. Nasir was handsome. Majida had given him a room in her flat free of charge. After some time, this relationship turned into love. Majida paid Nasir's fees and covered his expenses and both started dreaming of marriage. Majida talked to Nasir's mother and her mother also agreed to the marriage, but after some time Nasir changed his residence and made the excuse that his university was far away and it took a lot of time and money to go there. Then the conversation also decreased and when Majida complained to Nasir about his indifference, Nasir said that he had done Istikhara three times but it did not work and our marriage would not be successful.
Istikhara is a spiritual practice through which Muslims seek guidance from their Allah regarding the success or failure of a task.

Nasir said that his mother was no longer ready for this marriage, and Nasir left Majida. After some time, Majida found out that Majid had gone to Pakistan and got married there. Majida asked Nasir about his wife and did Istikhara three times, that is, asked Allah for guidance regarding the success or failure of the marriage, and he refused all three times. When Majida told Nasir, Nasir became silent. Majida kept asking me in tears why Nasir was unfaithful to her.
I asked Majida what conversations you had when you were living together.
Majida said that I used to tell Nasir to be organized, I used to tell him that I have done favors for you, I have a big hand in making your life successful, then I told Majida that you have shown Nasir's heart unwillingly, violated his self-esteem, and showed favor,
Nasir thought that today Majida is running the show before Shafi, so what will she do after marriage, so Nasir made an excuse that he did not get a signal from Allah, so this marriage cannot happen,
Then Majida understood that no one can win anyone's heart by hurting a person's self-esteem, today Majida is alone only because she has become accustomed to saying things that are unbearable for poor people due to her family background and being rich.
If you also disrespect your wife or friends, they will also distance themselves from you, to keep friends, wife or relatives close and maintain relationships, it is important to respect the person in front of you. Otherwise, you will be left alone like Majda.