The Real Reason Discipline Might Not Be Working

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In this episode, Lisa discusses reasons why she sees discipline not working. Throughout the podcast she talks about the importance of consistency, why connecting with your kids is vital, focusing on actions over words, why she doesn’t recommend discussing bad behaviour with kids, the impact of showing frustration towards your kids, different parenting styles, the task of becoming a calm leader, and her thoughts about parents trying to get their kids to obey them.

Lastly, Lisa addresses seven listener questions, covering how to stay consistent as a parent after being too permissive, managing bedtime battles with a 6-year-old, determining the right response when a 10-year-old throws a rock through a window, handling a 4-year-old's tantrums across both daycare and home settings, navigating a 3-year-old's constant desire to play, whether interrupting is an appropriate rule for the behavior board, and how to effectively manage consequences when outside the home.

Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction to Why Your Discipline Isn’t Working
01:14 Reason 1: Discipline Consistency
06:31 Reason 2: Connection With Your Kids
07:26 Reason 3: Focusing On Words Over Actions
09:16 Reason 4: Discussing Bad Behaviour
13:42 Reason 5: Showing Frustration Towards Your Kids
14:15 Reason 6: Different Parenting Styles
16:29 Listener Question 1: How to Stay Consistent as a Parent When You’ve Let Too Much Go?
17:41 Listener Question 2: Bedtime Battles With 6-Year-Old?
20:37 The Task of Becoming a Calm Leader
23:00 Listener Question 3: 10-Year-Old Threw a Rock Through Window?
25:48 Listener Question 4: 4-Year-Old Having Tantrums at Daycare and at Home?
28:51 Listener Question 5: 3-Year-Old Wants to Play All The Time?
31:29 Lisa’s Thoughts on Parents Trying to Get Their Kids to Obey Them
32:22 Listener Question 6: Can Interrupting Go on the BratBusters Behaviour Board?
34:59 Listener Question 7: Consequences When Outside the Home?
37:48 Parents Wanting to Explain Bad Behaviour
39:42 Final Thoughts on Discipline Not Working

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Disclaimer:

The information provided in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice. Lisa Bunnage is a Parenting Coach, mom and grandmother. Lisa is not a licensed psychologist or counsellor. Her services do not replace the care of psychologists or other healthcare professionals. For a full disclaimer, please visit bratbusters.com/disclaimer