Your Autistic Child Refuses to Say Sorry? Here's Why

Описание: When an autistic child refuses to apologize, it can feel uncomfortable, confusing, and highly visible — especially when other adults are watching.

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Refusal to say “sorry” is rarely about a lack of empathy or accountability.

In this video, I explain why forced apologies often backfire for autistic kids and what actually helps them learn responsibility and repair in ways that fit how their brains work.

We discuss:

Why insisting on immediate apologies can teach performance instead of accountability

What we’re really trying to teach when we ask for an apology

How to shift from forcing remorse to teaching repair

Practical alternatives to “say you’re sorry” that work in real life

Simple scripts you can use at home, at school, or in public

This isn’t about politeness or compliance.
It’s about helping autistic kids learn accountability without shame, masking, or forced emotion — so responsibility actually sticks.

If this perspective resonates, consider sharing it with another parent who’s navigating the same moments.

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Andrea J. Pollack, MSEd.
Autism Parent Solutions, LLC
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