Things You Shouldn’t Say to a Narcissist (These Phrases Backfire)

Описание: When dealing with a narcissist, what you say matters far less than who you’re saying it to.
Some phrases sound calm, reasonable, or emotionally healthy — but with a narcissist, they often make things worse.
In this video, we break down things you shouldn’t say to a narcissist — not because you’re wrong, but because of how narcissists use words to manipulate, deflect, and control.
You’ll learn why phrases like:
“Can we talk about this calmly?”
“That hurt my feelings”
“I just want you to understand”
“Why did you do that?”
“I forgive you” (without change)
“I won’t leave”
often backfire and lead to escalation, gaslighting, or emotional punishment.
This content is not about silencing yourself. It’s about protecting your emotional safety and understanding why communication strategies that work in healthy relationships fail in narcissistic dynamics.
Narcissists don’t change through conversations. They change only when boundaries and consequences are enforced.
📌 This video is for anyone dealing with:
Narcissistic abuse
Emotional manipulation
Gaslighting
Repeated communication breakdowns
Trauma bonds and boundary violations
Sometimes the safest thing you can say is less — or nothing at all.

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