Episode 111: Why Regulation Matters More than Obedience

Описание: Many Christian parents quietly wonder: If my child isn’t obedient, am I failing God?

In this episode, we explore the tension between obedience-based parenting and what neuroscience reveals about how children’s brains actually function—especially in neurodivergent, anxious, or trauma-affected kids.

You’ll learn why obedience is a higher brain function, why fear creates compliance but not discipleship, and how Scripture has often been misunderstood in ways that unintentionally harm sensitive nervous systems.

We talk about ADHD, autism, anxiety, trauma, and PDA—and why meltdowns, refusal, or shutdowns are not rebellion, but dysregulation.

This episode reframes parenting through a faith-centered, nervous-system-aware lens and releases parents from spiritual shame.

Key truth: Regulation is the soil. Obedience is the fruit.

We close with hope and an invitation into Thriving Together, a community where neuroscience, faith, and compassion meet.https://www.skool.com/thriving-togeth...



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