Dr. Shalom Augenbaum: "The Pain Keeps him Alive in me"

Описание: Dr. Augenbaum's Parenting Book - Inside Outside Parenting - mentioned in the podcast:
https://mosaicapress.com/product/insi...

Summary

In this conversation, Dr. Shalom Augenbaum shares his journey from becoming a doctor to his experiences in therapy and social work. He reflects on the importance of identity beyond titles, the challenges of transitioning from private practice to agency work, and the impact of personal experiences on his professional life. Dr. Augenbaum discusses the significance of community, connection, and the role of Hasidic thought in his personal growth. He also delves into the complexities of grief, the loss of his son, and the process of finding meaning in pain, ultimately emphasizing the importance of humility and understanding in the therapeutic relationship.

Takeaways

Identity is shaped by more than just titles and credentials.
The importance of being among colleagues for personal and professional growth.
High school experiences can significantly impact one's identity.
Leadership roles can lead to feelings of loneliness.
Experiences in Yeshiva can shape one's understanding of spirituality.
Writing can be a powerful tool for processing personal experiences.
Discipline is essential but can lead to tunnel vision.
Transitioning to a new community can be challenging yet rewarding.
Grief and loss can profoundly affect one's professional life.
Finding meaning in pain can lead to personal growth.

Highlights

"I learned most from my students."
"The pain itself is connection."
"Divorce is an identity shaker."