Janet & Miranda Review Virgin Island Show: What We Want You to Know as Surrogate Partners! Episode 1

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Janet Trevino - Profesional Cuddler, ReTouch: Rehabilitative Touch Therapy
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Miranda Wylie - Selfish Sexuality
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Surrogate partner therapists react to the “Virgin Island” reality show. This blind reaction video reveals what the show gets right (and seriously wrong) about working with sexually inexperienced clients.

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Watch Virgin Island on Channel 4 UK https://www.channel4.com/programmes/v...
Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent https://www.wheelofconsent.org/wheel
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Erotic Blueprint https://missjaiya.com
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As certified professionals in surrogate partner therapy, we break down the red flags, questionable techniques, and missed opportunities in Episode 1. If you're considering professional intimacy coaching, this video will help you know what to expect and avoid.

✨🗒️ 🌺 CHAPTER BREAKDOWN 🌺🗒️✨
0:00 Introduction and Expert Credentials
Virgin Island reality show overview
Surrogate partner therapists Janet Trevino of ReTouch Rehabilitative Touch and Miranda Wylie of Selfish Sexuality introductions
How to watch Virgin Island

2:11 Surrogate Partner Therapy and Somatica Coaching
Key differences in approaches
Meet the Virgin Island "sexperts"
What to expect from professional providers

8:50 Episode 1 Reaction: Sexual Debut and Societal Pressures
Why "losing virginity" language is harmful
Modern dating and intimacy challenges
Working with sexually inexperienced clients

16:30 Analyzing Virgin Island's Touch Exercises
"Practice saying no" with Jason
Up against a wall exercise: appropriate vs inappropriate techniques
Red flags in coaching methodologies

24:45 Professional Standards and Ethics
Why talk therapy integration matters
Gender dynamics and power imbalances
Trauma-informed approaches missing from show

33:04 Touch-Based Sessions: What's Realistic and Reality TV
Emma's "asking for touch" exercise breakdown
Working with touch-adverse clients
Zach's pleasure response testing

49:29 Choosing the Right Provider
Who should work with sexually inexperienced clients?
Professional boundaries and emotional regulation
Somatica coaching vs surrogate partner therapy

54:30 Virgin Island Day 2: Erotic Storytelling and Core Desires
Writing exercises analysis
Jack Morin's work and Erotic Blueprint concepts
Consent and participant agency concerns

1:01:39 First Professional Sessions Analysis
Jason's touch-based session reaction
Zach's surrogate partner therapy introduction
What authentic sessions should look like

1:14:52 Final Thoughts & Takeaways
Choices in “losing virginity”
Predictions


✨🗒️ 🌺 KEY MOMENTS 🌺🗒️ ✨
0:45 Surrogate Partner Therapist Introductions
1:57 How to watch “Virgin Island”
2:11 How is surrogate partner therapy different from a Somatica sex and relationship coach?
5:00 “Virgin Island” provider overview
7:54 Our commentary intention and goals.
9:40 Sexual debut vs "losing virginity" discussion
12:54 Working with clients with limited sexual experience
15:00 Defining sex and intimacy
17:09 Up against a wall exercise analysis and red flags
22:26 Triggering emotional response in Somatica coaching practice
26:47 Gender dynamics and power imbalances
29:18 Absent trauma-informed approach to intimacy
31:45 Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent
32:17 Diagnostic vs manipulative techniques
39:03 Testing client responses appropriately
42:26 Pleasure creation and consent education
51:51 Professional emotional regulation
55:42 Core desire work and erotic blueprints
57:15 Participant consent and agency
1:09:45 First introduction to surrogate partner therapy on Virgin Island

Content Warning: Profanity used

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