Abandoned at Seven, Rebuilt as a Man: How Healing the Root Restores Identity, Faith, and Peace

Описание: In this episode of Healed. Whole. Called., Wendy Melrose sits down with Jason Ward—Harvard-certified resiliency expert, licensed NLP practitioner, and Dr. Rewire facilitator—for a deeply honest conversation about abandonment, emotional repression, and the long road to freedom.


Jason opens up about a defining childhood moment: at seven years old, his father was supposed to pick him up—and never showed. That abandonment went unaddressed for years, quietly shaping Jason’s identity, relationships, and emotional responses. Though he told himself he was “fine,” the unresolved wound followed him into adulthood, surfacing as jealousy, anger, insecurity, and eventually the collapse of his marriage.


During his divorce, Jason sought help through therapy and personal development, but true breakthrough came when he addressed what he calls the root experience. Through hypnotherapy and later NLP (neuro-linguistic programming), Jason was able to access the unconscious beliefs formed in childhood—beliefs that told him he was unworthy, unlovable, and destined to be left.


Rather than labeling his past solely as “trauma,” Jason explains a powerful reframe: experiences themselves are neutral, but the emotion we attach to them becomes the root that shapes future behavior. When fear goes unnamed, it often disguises itself as anger. This insight becomes a central theme of the episode—especially for men who were taught to suppress emotion in the name of strength.


Jason and Wendy discuss how many men live disconnected from their emotional awareness, reacting instead of reflecting. Jason shares how healing the root transformed not only his internal world, but his marriage, expectations, faith, and leadership. He learned the difference between expectations and standards, releasing control while remaining grounded in his values.


Faith becomes a pivotal part of the story as Jason explains how healing allowed him to finally receive God’s unconditional love—something he intellectually knew, but emotionally resisted due to performance-based beliefs formed in childhood. Healing created space for surrender, and surrender opened the door to peace.


Today, Jason uses his testimony and training to help others—especially men and young people—navigate emotional awareness, identity, and freedom. He speaks in schools, athletic programs, and communities, helping teens understand emotions before they harden into patterns that follow them for life.


This episode is for anyone who has ever felt abandoned, angry without knowing why, or trapped by reactions they couldn’t explain. It is a reminder that you are not broken—you are responding to a root that can be healed.
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Focus: Emotional healing, resilience, men’s identity work, youth speaking, NLP coaching


Jason welcomes conversations with individuals, parents, schools, and organizations seeking healing-centered leadership and emotional literacy.






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Your story is not an accident.
You are healed.
You are whole.
You are called — and stewarding your story well matters.