The Pain All Growing Churches Face | Ep 21

Описание: Every growing church experiences it: people leave.

Not always because something went wrong — but because growth brings change. And when a church moves into a new season, not everyone moves with it.

In this episode, Scott, Mark, and Hunter talk about the emotional weight pastors carry when families and leaders step away. Because this isn’t just about attendance — it’s about grief.

This conversation covers:
Why turnover is a normal part of healthy growth
How unprocessed pain can limit your leadership capacity
The “Going, Going, Gone” system to catch drift early
The difference between grief and intentional mourning
How to bless and release people without hardening

If you’re serious about breaking attendance barriers and building a healthy, scalable church, you have to learn how to process the pain that growth brings.

Timestamps
00:00 Mastermind for churches under 500
00:41 Every growing church faces this
01:48 You only grow to your pain threshold
03:12 Why bigger churches lose more people
06:33 Most people won’t tell you they’re leaving
08:03 The “Going, Going, Gone” system
10:15 When healthy change causes exits
12:06 Seating capacity vs. sending capacity
16:04 Grief vs. mourning (why it matters)
20:01 Why you shouldn’t process this alone
24:59 Don’t just release — bless and send
27:07 Be crystal clear about who you are
29:59 Growth and grief go together

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