Before You Set the Goal: Resetting the Story You’re Telling Yourself

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On this show…we’re pushing pause to reset the story we tell ourselves before we set the goal. Because goal setting isn’t just about what you want to accomplish. It’s about the mindset you bring into it. The beliefs you’re carrying. And the expectations you quietly place on yourself before you ever take the first step.
Have you ever said yes to a goal, a project, or a commitment simply because you could? Not because you truly wanted to. Not because it fit your life right now. But because you felt capable, responsible, or maybe even a little afraid of what it would say about you if you didn’t?
For a long time, I thought that was growth. If I could do it, I should do it. If I was asked, I should say yes. And while that mindset served me in some seasons, it eventually led to feeling stretched thin, overwhelmed, and disconnected from what I actually wanted.
Last year, that realization turned into a mantra for me. “Just because I can, doesn’t mean I should or have to.” It wasn’t about doing less. It was about choosing better. Giving myself permission to pause, evaluate, and decide instead of reacting.
More recently, my husband and I landed on another mantra that started as a joke but turned out to be surprisingly powerful. “I can do anything. Now, what do I want to do?” And at first, it sounds almost playful. But the more we sat with it, the more we realized how much it shifts the conversation in our own heads.
Instead of starting with doubt, it starts with belief. Instead of asking, “Am I capable enough?” it asks, “What actually matters to me right now?” That small change removes the need to prove anything. It creates space to choose instead of justify, to explore instead of second-guess.
When you begin with “I can,” doors don’t close before you even reach them. Curiosity replaces fear. Possibility replaces pressure. And suddenly, goals stop feeling like tests you have to pass and start feeling like options you’re allowed to consider.

CHALLENGE: Pause before setting your next goal and ask yourself one honest question: “Do I want this, and why?” Choose a mantra that reflects who you are now, not who you were trying to be, and let belief lead instead of doubt or obligation.

I Know YOU Can Do It!