🎭 "I Can't Leave — I Need the Health Insurance" — Narcissistic Abuse at Work | My Story 3/4

Описание: The same eight mechanisms my abuser used at home — my employer used at work.
Isolation. Surveillance. Economic control. Gaslighting. Exhaustion. Intimidation. Permission asymmetry. Gradual escalation.
Same cards. Different abuser.
I was a psychiatric nurse practitioner for 25 years. I loved my work. It was my identity. And a venture capital-owned healthcare company consumed me the same way my abusive marriage did.
If you've ever said "I can't leave this job because I need the health insurance" — this video is for you.
IN THIS VIDEO:
How the 8 mechanisms of coercive control operate in workplaces
The three players that make healthcare a closed loop of control
Why the system recruits people who care — then exploits that care
The trap that makes leaving feel like YOUR failure
How I finally got out
This isn't about one bad company. It's about a pattern. And if you're a nurse, teacher, social worker, first responder, or anyone being ground down by the place you gave everything to — you're not alone.
I'm Susan — psychiatric nurse, 25 years in mental health.

⚠️ CONTENT WARNING: Workplace abuse, institutional exploitation, burnout.

🎭 THIS SERIES:
Video 1: The Pattern (the framework):    • 🎭 Narcissistic Abuser → Toxic Employer → A...  
Video 2: The Relationship:    • 🎭 "I Can't Leave — I Need the Health Insur...  
Video 3: The Workplace (this video):    • 🎭 "That Didn't Happen. You're Being Cruel....  
Video 4: The Country:    • 🎭 The 8 Tactics Narcissists Use — Coercive...  
📚 Read on Substack: https://4seedsofwisdom.substack.com/p...

⚠️ CRISIS RESOURCES:
🇺🇸 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call or text 988
🇺🇸 Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
🇨🇦 Crisis Services Canada: 988
🇲🇽 Línea de la Vida: 800-911-2000
Healthcare workers: The 988 Lifeline is for you too. You don't have to be the strong one all the time.

DISCLAIMER:
The experiences described are my own recollections and perspectives from my time working as a Registered Nurse (RN) and Advanced Practice Registered Nurse (APRN) in New Hampshire. I recorded this video while in Massachusetts, but I am not practicing medicine or nursing in Massachusetts, nor am I a licensed attorney or physician in any jurisdiction. All names, locations, and identifying details have been changed or omitted. This is a personal narrative, not a comprehensive account of any specific organization, and is presented for entertainment and educational purposes only. I am not a lawyer, physician, or other licensed professional; the content is not legal, medical, or financial advice. Any factual observations are based on publicly available information and are not presented as definitive claims. If you need professional legal, medical, or mental-health advice, please consult a qualified professional in your jurisdiction.

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