The Psychology of Love : Why most relationships fail.

Описание: ආදරේ කියන්නේ මොකක්ද?
Is love just a feeling… or is it something we must truly understand?

In this video, we explore the real psychology of love, beyond songs, movies, and fantasies.
Most relationships don’t fail because love disappears — they fail because we misunderstand what love actually is.

Starting with a poetic Sinhala opening that speaks about coldness (සීත) and warmth (උණුසුම), this video explains how we often identify love only through passion, attraction, romance, and sexual desire. But is that enough for love to last?

Using social psychology and Robert Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love, this video clearly explains:

🔹 Why passion alone cannot sustain a relationship
🔹 Why many people think “love is over” when feelings change
🔹 The three essential components of healthy love
🔹 Why imbalance — not lack of love — causes breakups
🔹 How to build a mature, emotionally safe, long-term relationship

🔺 The Three Pillars of Love Explained

❤️ Intimacy – trust, emotional safety, deep connection
🔥 Passion – attraction, desire, excitement
🤝 Commitment – choice, responsibility, long-term vision

When these three are balanced, love becomes stable, deep, and real.

This video is for:
✔️ People confused about their relationships
✔️ Those who feel love has “changed”
✔️ Anyone who wants a psychologically healthy relationship
✔️ Viewers who enjoy deep Sinhala content with meaning

Love is not just something we feel.
Love is something we understand, build, and choose.

If we understand love correctly, relationships don’t fail —
they mature.

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