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"My Boyfriend Won't Make Time For Me!" - What You Should Do...
By: Carlos Cavallo

If you've ever been in a relationship where you want to get any attention you deserved, you might have found yourself feeling neglected and unwanted. You may have even told your friends "My boyfriend won't make time for me! What the heck should I do?"

Let's tackle this tricky situation and give you the tips you need.

You don't want to feel lonely, and you definitely don't want to feel neglected. You probably also don't want to break up.

But you also know that you just don't feel like a priority in his eyes. And you probably know that you deserve better.

One strategy that definitely will not work is complaining and nagging. Very often we feel that the only way we can get our needs met is to pressure someone to give us what we need. But this is a strategy that will backfire most of the time.

Even if you get what you want by pressuring him you will create resentment and friction between you and him.
No one wants to be beaten into submission. And this is true 10 times over when it comes to men. No man ever wants to be pushed into anything in a relationship.

And you definitely don't want to threaten the relationship. Or threaten him.

When a guy hears complaining, all he hears is that he is not adequate. A man is focused on solutions and fixing problems. So by complaining you're saying that you are dissatisfied with him, but there's also no solution for the problem.

And contrary to what you might think, you can't just tell him to "make more time." He needs specifics.

Not to mention, you will begin to wonder if he is still interested in you anymore.

Being a priority is a significant signal in a relationship. And you're right to want to be a priority.
You need to know that if you were to marry him or live with him, he would be there for you. Because that's what it comes down to in the end - will he be there for you?

You need a man you can rely on and depend upon. And who can keep you safe.

So how do you get him to make you a priority? How do you get him to make more time for you? It feels like you're at an impasse.

Why is he not making time for you? Reason 1: He is genuinely busy
This one is tricky. He will probably give you this excuse - even if it's not the real reason. In fact is probably the most common stall tactic a man uses on a woman.

The fact is that no matter what, IF we love and appreciate someone, we want to be with them. We will make it happen.

We won't make excuses and we definitely won't let time get in the way.

Sure, there is a chance that he is overwhelmed with things to do in his life. (A lot of men get busy building their careers, depending on where he is in his life. This is something I talk about in my Connection Code program.)

It's vitally important that you understand what stage of life he's in so that you can understand his behavior as well.

Some women get involved with a man who is in a stage of his life that she doesn't understand, and this leads to problems in the relationship. Problems that could easily be solved if she knew more about how men think and feel.

Reason 2: Because he's not that into you
Unfortunately, the truth is that sometimes he isn't making you a priority because he really isn't that into the relationship.

Not every man is going to take a relationship and want to run to the goal with it. Whether that's marriage or moving in together, sometimes he is only in the relationship out of convenience.

This can also be true for you, too, of course. But you wouldn't have come to my article about "he's not making time for me" unless you wanted more from this guy, right?

Just make sure you don't want more from him only because he's giving you less. Scarcity can trick you into relationships that aren't right for you.

Reason 3: Bad Timing
Sometimes you just catch a guy at the wrong time.

Maybe he's fresh out of an old relationship
Maybe he's just started a new job
Maybe he is in the process of trying to align his priorities
Maybe he's dealing with a difficult situation
If you find yourself in bad timing, the best thing you can do is to wait it out a little longer. See if you can get back in sync.

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