39 | The Subconscious Fear of Change: Why Wanting Change Isn’t Enough

Описание: In this episode, Safiya and I explore one of the most misunderstood reasons people stay stuck: the subconscious fear of change.






We talk about why change can feel exciting at first, and then suddenly feel heavy, exhausting, or impossible once you actually try to follow through. Not because you’re lazy, but because your subconscious mind is wired to prioritize safety over growth.






This conversation unpacks how resistance often shows up after you’ve already decided you want something different.






And most importantly, we talk about how real, lasting change doesn’t come from forcing yourself to push harder… but from helping your system feel safe enough to move forward.






What You’ll Learn:

• Why wanting change isn’t the same as feeling safe enough to make it
• How the subconscious decides what feels “safe” (and what doesn’t)
• The difference between normal discomfort and subconscious resistance
• Why willpower fades, and what actually helps when motivation wears off
• How past experiences quietly shape your relationship with change
• Where to start when you’ve been repeating the same goal for years





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Your Next Steps:


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And if you know someone who keeps starting over, someone who’s stuck in overthinking, perfectionism, or quiet self-sabotage, someone who wants change but keeps feeling pulled back, send them this episode.






It might help them realize that with the right support, change doesn’t have to feel so hard.





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The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition, nor does it constitute a therapeutic relationship. All views expressed are my own. You should always consult with your own medical, mental health, legal, and financial professionals before making any decisions.