"Your Ego Is Lying To You (The Dark Psychology of Self-Sabotage)"

Описание: You think narcissists are other people.

Wrong.

You ARE the narcissist. And your ego is actively destroying your potential right now.

Here's what's happening:

When you succeed → "I'm a genius. I'm destined for this." (Grandiose narcissism)
When you fail → "The system is rigged. Nothing works for me." (Vulnerable narcissism)

Both are lies. Both protect you from the painful truth.

And the painful truth is this:
→ You're not special
→ You're not cursed
→ You're just average and unwilling to do the 10,000 hours of work required

Your ego has 2 jobs:
1. Protect you from painful reality
2. Convince you you're exceptional

Both are killing your ability to grow.

In this video I break down:
→ The 2 types of narcissism you oscillate between (and don't realize)
→ Why your ego won't let you see yourself clearly
→ How Dostoevsky understood this 150 years before modern psychology
→ The daily ego audit that stops self-deception
→ How to separate truth from ego-protection

This isn't about "dealing with narcissists."
This is about realizing: YOU are the narcissist sabotaging yourself.

Grandiose when winning. Victim when losing. Never honest.

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TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 - You're the narcissist
0:45 - The 2 narcissism types you switch between
2:15 - Why your ego protects you from growth
3:30 - The Dostoevsky insight (psychological warfare)
5:00 - The daily ego audit protocol
6:30 - Truth-seeking over ego-protection

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Most self-improvement tells you "you're amazing, keep going."

I'm telling you: Your ego is a liar. And until you kill the delusion, you'll keep failing.

If this makes you uncomfortable, good. That's your ego trying to protect itself.

Comment below: Are you more grandiose or more victim? Be honest.

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