This might hurt a little 🙈 but here we go!!! 👉🏼Stop expecting your toddler to act like a grown up

Описание: This might hurt a little 🙈 but here we go!!!

👉🏼Stop expecting your toddler to act like a grown up. They’re not rational mini adults. They’re overstimulated little humans figuring out the world.

👉🏼Let them help. Yes, it’s slower. Yes, it’s messier. But it’s how they build confidence, life skills, and a sense of belonging.

👉🏼Stop saying “no” to things that don’t matter. Let her wear the rain boots with her pajamas. Save your “no” for things that actually matter, like safety, respect, and boundaries.

👉🏼Screens might feel like they’re saving you in the moment, but take a hard look at your toddler after hours of it. The meltdowns? The wild energy? That’s not random. It’s a red flag.

👉🏼Your phone is stealing your kid’s childhood. You say “they grow up so fast,” but you’re not really there for it. Put the phone down. This season doesn’t come back. Yes, so much of our life happens on our phones. But that’s not what I’m talking about and you know it.

👉🏼You’re not just snappy. you’re running on fumes. Did you eat real food today? Drink water? Move your body? You’re not a bad mom. You’re a depleted one. Go back to the basics and take care of yourself.

👉🏼Me time” matters. But staying up until 1AM scrolling isn’t self-care. It’s self-sabotage. You don’t need another episode. You need sleep.

👉🏼Motherhood isn’t meant to be a slow burnout.It’s not strength to run on fumes. It’s not noble to lose yourself. It’s not a badge of honor to resent your entire day.No one is coming to rescue your motherhood. There’s no magical moment when the chaos just… fixes itself. You’re the shift.You’re the one who gets to say,“Something has to change—and it starts with me.”

👉🏼Screen time is smothering your kid’s creativity. Boredom is not the enemy. It’s the birthplace of imagination, problem solving, and independent play.

👉🏼Your toddler isn’t “bad.” They’re acting exactly how toddlers are wired to act: impulsive, loud, messy, emotional. Stop trying to fix normal.

THESE ARE SAID IN LOVE OKAY??? Can we still be friends? 🫣 this is advice for myself too, bc the good Lord knows I have to work on these things every single day