Stop Doing This in Your 30s | Lessons I'm Unlearning

Описание: In this video, I'm sharing the lessons I'm unlearning as I navigate my 30s—and honestly, it's been one of the most freeing journeys of my life.
For years, I found myself people-pleasing at my own expense, chasing an impossible standard of perfectionism, and making myself smaller to fit into spaces that were never meant for me. But something shifted in my 30s. I started questioning these patterns and realizing they were holding me back from living authentically.
In this video, I'm getting real about:

Why people-pleasing was draining my energy and how I'm learning to set boundaries without guilt
The exhausting cycle of perfectionism and why "good enough" is actually more than enough
What it means to stop shrinking ourselves to make others comfortable—and how to take up space unapologetically

If you're also on a journey of unlearning old patterns and rediscovering who you really are, this one's for you. Let's normalize growth, messy progress, and choosing ourselves.
Drop a comment and let me know—what are YOU unlearning right now?

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