Why Avoidants PUNISH you For Loving Them and Reward You for Ignoring Them | Megan Weks

Описание: In this powerful deep-dive, relationship expert Megan Weks exposes the maddening dynamic of loving an avoidant partner. Why do they withdraw when you show love, yet pursue you the moment you pull away? This 26-minute guide reveals the psychological and physiological reasons behind this painful pattern.

If you've ever felt punished for your love and rewarded for your indifference, this video is your roadmap to understanding why. We break down the avoidant attachment style, their nervous system's threat response to intimacy, and the core wounds that drive this heartbreaking cycle. More importantly, we show you how to break free without losing yourself in the process.

TIMESTAMPS:
⏰ 0:00 - The Maddening Pattern of Avoidance
💔 2:15 - Why Love Registers as a THREAT
🧠 5:40 - The Nervous System's Role (It's Not a Metaphor)
👶 8:50 - How Childhood Wounds Create This Dynamic
🚫 12:10 - The Specific Ways They Punish Your Love
🔁 15:30 - Why Your Indifference Suddenly Pulls Them Close
⚖️ 18:45 - The Power Dynamic They NEED to Feel Safe
💡 22:00 - How to Break the Cycle Without Becoming Avoidant Yourself

This is not about playing games. It's about understanding the fundamental incompatibility between a secure, loving approach and an avoidant partner's capacity to receive it. Watch to reclaim your power and your right to a love that is received with joy, not punishment.


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This video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional therapeutic or medical advice. The concepts discussed are based on attachment theory and are generalizations; individual experiences may vary. If you are in a relationship that is causing you significant distress, please seek the guidance of a qualified mental health professional.