"No one will love you until you love yourself" and other harmful things we say...

Описание: "No one will love you until you love yourself" and other harmful things we say like "People treat you how you allow them to treat you", or "you can't love anyone unless you love yourself" can actually cause more harm than good. We end up victim blaming the victim in these scenarios, when they were not the ones at fault. Their only crime was expecting the world to not be a hard and cruel place. Some people are too kind for this world... and that is not their fault. People will treat us how they want to treat us. Let us learn patience, kindness and empathy. Let us teach one another boundaries with grace and kindness.


▬ Chapters ▬
00:00 "People only treat you how you allow them to treat you"
04:01 "That could never be me..."
06:20 the world is "unloving"
08:19 the right words at the right time
13:30 why we need boundaries
15:55 no one wants to be a "victim"
19:28 self love won't protect you from everything
27:16 it is our responsibility
30:01 you can't "make" anyone do anything
32:26 it's not your fault
32:52 I wish the world was kind...
33:24 give people grace to learn
34:39 self h*rm and medicating

content included: harmful phrases we say, no one will love you until you love yourself, people only treat you how you allow them to treat you, you attract who you are, victim blaming, be kind to others, learning compassion and kindness, creating a kinder world, how to be a good friend, empathetic Black women, victim blaming, victim mentality, healing diaries, love letters to Black women, reparation and care, be kind to people,

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