Your Intelligence Is Making You Lonely (Here's Why)
Автор: Mindful Petra
Загружено: 2025-12-27
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In this video, we explore the psychology behind why highly self-aware people often feel like outsiders in social settings, and why that's not actually a problem to fix.
What we cover:
The spotlight effect on steroids, why your brain won't stop the running commentary.
Kahneman's two systems of thinking and why yours defaults to the exhausting one.
High self-monitoring and the hidden cost of being a social chameleon.
The authenticity paradox, belonging vs being yourself.
Why you're wired for depth in a world built for small talk.
The friendship math problem and why your people are harder to find.
Key researchers mentioned:
Thomas Gilovich & Kenneth Savitsky (spotlight effect), Daniel Kahneman (thinking systems), Mark Snyder (self-monitoring), Daniel Goleman (emotional intelligence), Hans Eysenck (introversion), Dr. Elaine Aron (highly sensitive people), Robin Dunbar (social circles), Arthur Aron (vulnerability and intimacy), and more.
This isn't about changing who you are. It's about understanding your social architecture and building a life that actually works for it.
If this resonated with you, you're not alone. Drop a comment about your experience. hances are, someone else here gets it.
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