How to Set Strong Boundaries with Your Wife

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🚧 How To Set Strong Boundaries With Your Wife 🚧

Boundaries.

It's a buzzword.

A go-to fix-it line from well-meaning friends.

"Boundaries, girl! Don’t let David’s mom control you like that!" Alesha’s friend declares over coffee.

Meanwhile, David’s mother is setting her own boundaries for Alesha... and David? He’s contemplating boundaries just to keep them both from strangling each other.

This isn’t boundaries—it’s a mess.

I’m going to teach you a simple, no-BS approach to boundaries.

One that actually works.

❌ What Bad Boundaries Look Like ❌

Most people are doing boundaries wrong.

They think boundaries are about forcing other people to stop annoying them.

That’s because 95% of people aren’t fully conscious.

They think their feelings are caused by other people—so they believe setting a boundary will magically make them feel better.

That’s like trying to drive the road down the car instead of driving the car down the road.

Your feelings don’t come from other people.

They come from YOU.

Your brain interprets the world through your five senses (which, by the way, are highly unreliable).

Think of boundaries like a fence.

If you use boundaries to fence your bad feelings, you’re just letting those feelings run your life.

And that’s a losing game.

✅ What Good Boundaries Look Like ✅

A real boundary protects something you VALUE.

That’s the key—it’s positive.

Your phone dies if you never charge it, right?

You’re no different.

When you get crystal clear on what keeps you strong, you naturally draw a line in the sand.

🚫 No more over-giving.
🚫 No more over-accommodating.
🚫 No more over-serving.

That’s a good boundary.

So what fuels you?

🌲 Time in nature?
🗣 Meaningful conversation?
🍻 A night with the boys?

Protect those things with a boundary, brother.

We all have behaviors that make us proud of who we are—that light us up and earn our own self-respect.

Don’t bend on them.

A boundary around respect means nobody can push you into acting disrespectfully.

A boundary around love means nobody can push you into acting unloving.

If you want strong boundaries with your wife, dig your heels in and hold the line.

If you don’t like how she’s acting?

Don’t join her—step back.

That’s your boundary.

That’s you drawing a line in the sand for what you allow yourself to engage with.

🚀 Boundaries Are for BIG Things 🚀

Moods? Petty frustrations? Minor annoyances?

They don’t need boundaries.

Boundaries are for the BIG things.

DEALBREAKERS.

The experiences that would make you step out of someone’s life.

Your wife is always going to have feelings, pushback, moods—it’s part of her nature.

You must be the rock.

✅ When she’s stormy, you stay grounded.
✅ When she’s emotional, you stand firm.
✅ When she tests you, you don’t react.

But the moment she crosses the line of what you deeply value…

That’s when your boundary comes out.

🎯 Gaining Clarity on Who You Are 🎯

This is the work I do with men 1:1.

We dig deep into your core values and get rock-solid on how to protect them.

You become a man who is strong, not reactive.

A man who fills the space that’s his to fill—without stepping into hers.

1:1 coaching with me isn’t for guys who dabble.

It’s for men who want the maximum return on their investment.

Men who don’t pussyfoot around—they go big or go home.

But if you’re not ready for coaching yet, my book is a great place to start.

It’s for High-Achieving Men who want to restore intimacy in their marriage.

👉 You’ll learn why doing everything she’s been asking for isn’t working.
👉 Why being her “dream husband” is backfiring.
👉 Why she no longer craves your touch—and how to turn that around.

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Much love, brother.

– Garrett Prettyman