Loyalty or Self-Destruction?| Endurance in Toxic Love | The Illusion of Love

Описание: When you stay in an abusive relationship, thinking it’s a test of your loyalty, strength, or resilience, you stop treating yourself like a human being who deserves care.
You abandon yourself.

And when you fail to honor your own humanity, you can’t offer real love to anyone else either.
Because real love is built on self-respect — not fear, not endurance, not survival.

Without self-respect, the connection becomes something else... something that drains you instead of giving life to both people.
And even the person hurting you can feel that emptiness.
Deep down, they know they're not getting what only self-respect can create: true love.

That’s why they stay dissatisfied.
That’s why they criticize you.
That’s why they chase nurturing, gentle people elsewhere — because they’re looking for the emotional safety that only comes when someone loves and honors themselves first.

You can’t create true love by abandoning yourself.
Self-respect is the soil.
Without it, nothing real can grow.
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