Shan Boody Advice” – What We Love (And What’s Still Missing for Black Professionals)

Описание: If you’ve ever watched Shan Boody on YouTube or Instagram, you know why she’s huge. She gives straight talk sex and relationship advice, no shame, no church voice, no fake morality. For a lot of millennials and Gen Z, especially Black women, she was the first person to say out loud: “Your pleasure and your boundaries matter.”
We agree with more of Shan’s advice than we disagree with. But there is a crucial layer that rarely gets talked about: strategic partner selection – especially for Black professionals who want marriage, legacy and stable families, not just better dates.
Where We Strongly Agree with Shan Boody
• Normalizing honest conversations about sex & intimacy.
Many of us grew up with silence or shame. Shan’s openness helps people name what they want and don’t want.
• Calling out “situationships” and low effort partners.
She encourages women to stop accepting crumbs – emotionally or sexually.
• Encouraging self awareness.
A lot of her content pushes you to ask, “What do I really want?” instead of just following vibes.
For us, this is essential “readiness” work. You can’t choose well if you don’t even know your own needs and limits.
Where We Add a Layer
Our model takes Shan’s good starting point and adds structure and strategy:
• Shan helps you talk honestly about sex and intimacy;
we help you decide who should even get access.
• She helps you recognize red flags in individuals;
we zoom out to structural red flags – misaligned life goals, values clashes, money habits, family vision.
• She’s brilliant at helping you navigate modern dating;
we’re obsessed with where that dating is supposed to lead: a mission aligned partnership that can survive decades.
Put simply: Shan Boody can help you date better; we help you choose a life partner better.
Your partner is not just a lover – they’re your biggest accelerator or saboteur. Fertilizer or weed poison. If you’re a Black professional who wants to build legacy, that choice is too consequential to leave to chemistry alone.
How This Connects to Relationship Readiness + 1,000 Couples Challenge
In our Relationship Readiness Masterclass, we take people who love Shan style honesty and give them a full strategic framework:
• Clear criteria for a mission aligned partner
• Tools to distinguish “fun for now” vs “safe for life”
• Exercises to map how a partner could accelerate or derail your purpose, finances and mental health
From there, the Matchmaking Readiness Audit and the 1,000 Couples Challenge exist to move you from content → clarity → committed, healthy partnership.
If Shan Boody helped you realize you deserve better, we help you define “better” in concrete, strategic terms – and then go and find it.

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