Ep. #5 The Cruelty of Dementia: It's Not Personal

Описание: Episode 5: The Cruelty of Dementia: It's Not Personal Why does your mom with dementia save her worst behavior for you—the daughter who sacrifices everything—while being pleasant to everyone else?

In this episode, Shannon Calles tackles one of the most painful, isolating realities of dementia caregiving: being the target of your parent's cruelty when you're the one doing all the work.

You'll learn:

Why dementia patients are cruelest to their primary caregivers (the science behind being the "safe person") How your mom's broken brain confuses you with everything she's lost Why she can "hold it together" for strangers but falls apart with you The difference between "Mom" and "Dementia"—and why that distinction will save you Practical strategies to protect your heart without abandoning your parent How to stop defending yourself and start setting boundaries If you've ever been accused of stealing, heard "I hate you," or wondered why the home health aide gets gratitude while you get rage—this episode will help you understand it's not about you; it's the disease.

This episode is for you if:

Your parent with dementia treats you worse than anyone else You're exhausted from trying to prove your love Your siblings don't see the abuse because she's sweet during their visits You're questioning whether you're doing something wrong You need permission to grieve the mother you've already lost Remember: You are not the villain in her story. You are the hero in yours.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Free consultation: clarkcountyseniorresources.com Text Shannon directly: 564-227-8847 Connect with Shannon:

Want to hop on a call to discuss your situation and what your options are?

In a call together, I will help you understand where things are at with your parent, what options you have available to you now and in the future, resources available, and how I can help you.

Resources & Links

📧 Book an Urgent Consultation: If you're in crisis—hospital discharge, decline, dementia, confusion—Shannon can help.

Email: [email protected] Text: 564-227-8847 Website: ClarkCountySeniorResources.com 📱 Connect with Shannon:

Instagram: @clark_county_senior_resources Email: [email protected] Website: ClarkCountySeniorResources.com 📖 Read the Full Show Notes Here:



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Chapters

00:00 Understanding the Pain of Caregiving 06:45 The Cruelty of Dementia: It's Not Personal 12:13 Grieving the Mother You've Lost

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