5 Things I Stopped Chasing for a Calm Life

Описание: Simplifying life takes effort, and sometimes it can be a real challenge.
These are 5 things I quit to simplify life, and real moments where I’ve struggled and failed—but kept trying.

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Chapters:
00:00 simplifying life can be challenging
00:23 physical clutter
01:37 revisiting the past
02:52 aiming for perfection
04:44 overcommitting
06:12 unhealthy relationships

5 Things I Quit To Simplify Life

Living a simpler, slower life sounds peaceful, doesn’t it?

But simplifying life takes effort, and sometimes it can be a real challenge.
Today, I’m sharing the five things I quit to simplify my life, along with real moments where I’ve struggled and failed—but kept trying.

Physical Clutter
Just last month, I decided to sort through our kitchen drawers and cabinets because the clutter has been getting a little out of hand. At first, I felt accomplished letting go of things I hadn’t used in years.
But a week later, I found myself justifying why I should keep a few items I didn’t need and buy more bins instead of getting rid of excess stuff.
It’s easy to fall back into old habits, but I try to focus on the benefits of less clutter: more space, less stress, and easier decision-making.

Revisiting the Past

Just recently, I was beating myself up all over again because of a mistake I made years ago in my life. It’s something so trivial now and the other person has already moved on, but to me, it still stung.
It’s not easy to break this habit of revisiting the past, but I try to remind myself: the past can’t change, but my present mindset can. When those thoughts arise, I pause, take a deep breath, and tell myself to focus on what I can do today. I’m not perfect at it, but even small steps toward letting go make my days lighter.

Aiming For Perfection

Perfectionism has been a lifelong struggle for me. I always wanted to be perfect, to be loved and accepted by others - the perfect daughter, the perfect wife, the perfect mom, the perfect everything.

But the truth is, perfection is an illusion. No one has it all together, no matter how polished their life may look from the outside. I’ve learned—slowly and painfully—that striving for perfection only robs us of joy in the present.

Overcommitting

Setting boundaries is something I’m still learning. For example, last weekend, I promised myself a work-free Sunday.
But there I was, sitting at a café with my husband, and instead of soaking in the moment, I caught myself thinking about YouTube—planning ideas, mentally tweaking scripts and squeezing in some filming.
And honestly? It made me feel a little disappointed in myself. I thought I had to be great at setting boundaries and slowing down, especially since that’s what I talk about here. But the truth is, I’m still learning and still stumbling.

Unhealthy Relationships

Walking away from unhealthy relationships is never easy, and it’s something I’ve struggled with for years.
There was a friendship I ended because it felt one-sided—I was always giving more of myself while receiving little in return. Even after cutting ties, I couldn’t help but second-guess my choice.
Sometimes, seeing something that reminds me of that person stirs up those feelings again. But then I recall how that relationship left me emotionally drained and unvalued.
It reminds me of a quote: "An unhealthy relationship is like standing on broken glass; if you stay, you will keep hurting... If you walk away, you will hurt, but eventually, you will heal."
Letting go of relationships like these isn’t just about simplifying life—it’s about self-respect.
It’s recognizing that prioritizing peace and mutual care is something we need to do, even when it feels uncomfortable or when doubts creep in.

Living a Perfectly Imperfect Life

Simplifying life is not about achieving perfection—it’s about trying, failing, and trying again. These struggles have taught me resilience, intentionality, and how to focus on what truly matters.
What about you? What’s one thing you’ve quit—or want to quit—to simplify your life? I look forward to hearing from you in the comments soon. Thank you for sharing this time with me and wishing you peace and clarity in your journey towards a slow and simple lifestyle🌿