The Attractive Guy Paradox

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Timestamps:
00:00 – The Charismatic Man Paradox (Why This Sounds Backwards)
00:32 – Why High Charisma Triggers People’s Insecurities
00:53 – My Story: From Social Anxiety to Confidence
01:30 – The Real Reason People Start Seeing You as a Threat
02:38 – Why Attractive, High-Status Men Get Less Signals
03:21 – The Dating Paradox: Why Interest Makes People Shut Down
04:20 – Famous People, Beautiful Women, and the “They’re Human” Shift
04:32 – Why the Most Attractive Women Get Approached the Least
05:56 – The Hidden Blessing: Why You Must Make the First Move

If you're new to my channel, my name is Dani Banchev, I'm a speaker, hypnotist, and founder of Born to Speak.

I came to Canada with immigrant parents who had almost nothing. We moved four times before I turned ten, leaving me bullied, socially anxious, and addicted to p*rn.

That pain made me obsessed with the psychology of success. For seven years I studied sales, dating, and influence, all leading to one timeless skill: charisma.

Charisma helped me speak on stages, make money doing what I love, and build what money can’t buy: meaningful relationships.

From 2022–2025, I built a 70k+ audience, coached 300+ students, closed hundreds of deals, delivered 1500+ coaching hours, and built the #1 Skool community in addiction recovery.

My mission for 2026:
Make Born to Speak the #1 community for founders to eliminate fear of public speaking for good, get on stages to build their brands, and master the one skill AI will never replace: charisma.