How To Keep Them ATTRACTED! - Course of Attraction (PART 2)

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How do you attract them?

Hey everyone! Welcome to Part 2 of the Course of Attraction. Today we’re talking about the actual methods and actions you can take to attract people once you meet them.

When we think of an attractive person, what comes to mind? Are they lurking in the corner, pessimistic, or cold? Likely not.
People we find attractive are more likely to be charismatic, humorous, open, and excited. Their positive energy draws us in.
The first thing to keep in mind if you want people to find you more attractive is to take on that confident attitude and fun, positive energy. Look people in the eye and smile when you talk to them and they’ll feel more comfortable either approaching you or opening up to you.

Next, let’s go over some opening lines or conversation starters you can use. Both men and women can and should walk up and initiate conversation. You have no excuse to excuse yourself from working on opening or introductory lines.
This isn’t an exhaustive list, but just something to give you a few ideas to start with.
Hey, I saw you from across the room and I had to say something. I’m [name].
Hi, I’m [name], how’s it going? I figured I’d save us time staring at each other and just introduce myself.
Are you just as lost as I am? (if you’re in a big crowd)
Hey, I just wanted to come up to you and let you know that I think you are very/incredibly cute (attractive, beautiful, etc).
*don’t be nervous about being forward! It’s much more effective than you would think!

Once you’ve introduced yourself, it’s important to keep a conversation going. The best way to do that is to ask open-ended questions and questions that are a little out of the box. That way, you’ll get more interesting answers and a much better sense of who they are as a person. Check out my video, “How to Never Run Out of Things to Say on a Date” if you want more ideas for questions and holding a lively conversation. Don’t worry, you don’t have to be dating to use the principles in that video.

Next, flirting! I think this should be obvious, but where’s the fun or attraction without flirting?
Flirting can be a nuanced and complicated skill- it combines humor, innuendo, and teasing- but it’s best if you don’t overthink it. Again, the point is to have fun. You’ve got to practice it, though, as flirting doesn’t come naturally for everyone. The more you talk to people, crack jokes, poke fun at them, you’ll have an easier time getting a feel for creating that atmosphere of sexy and alluring while simultaneously light and humorous. Again, if you want to dive a bit deeper, check out “The Art of Flirting”.

While this often goes hand in hand with flirting, seduction can also stand on its own.
Seduction is a bit heavier than flirting, a bit more serious, but extremely powerful if done correctly. You’re channeling your primal sexuality straight at them and creating sexual tension.
The key to seduction is not about the gratification of one’s desire, but of the the thrill of desire itself. So there’s no need to rush into sex or even making out, but instead savor the moment when you lock eyes, when your legs brush against each other, and tease with the possibility of what could be. Stay tuned for more videos about seduction on our channel.

Lastly, CONNECT. The most important factor for someone being attracted to you is making a connection with them. You don’t have to become each other’s soulmates, but there has to be something that is pulling to two of you together. The more you’re able to connect with that person, the stronger that pull will be.

Throughout your conversation with someone, pay attention to the cues they are sending you. Are they engaged with you? Laughing and smiling and facing you? Or do they keep saying no in one way or another- looking or shifting away from you, not smiling, and not participating in the conversation?
If someone isn’t reciprocating your positive energy, then politely end the conversation and talk to someone else. There’s no point in wasting your time or theirs if they’re not interested in you and it’s no fun, either. Move on and just find someone else who is more attentive and giving out similar positive vibes.

That’s it for Part 2 of the Course of Attraction. Part 3 will cover what you need to get rid of to attract an amazing partner.
Share some of your best opening lines or techniques to attract someone and hit that like and subscribe button to stay updated and thanks as always for watching!