80 MILLION MICROBES: How Kissing Creates a 'Love Loop' in Your Brain and Body

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Have you ever wondered what really happens during an intimate kiss? Forget the romance for a second and let's talk numbers: A single 10-second intimate kiss transfers roughly 80 million bacteria between partners. This isn't just a fun fact; it's a massive biological exchange that researchers believe creates a literal 'Love Loop' in your relationship. In this podcast, we dive into the revolutionary science proving that our love lives and our microbial lives are deeply connected. What You'll Discover: • The Microbial Exchange: Find out how frequent kissing leads to a convergence—meaning partners start to develop much more similar oral microbiota profiles over time. This continuous microbial sharing creates a semi-stable equilibrium, and the tongue is a key surface where this sharing takes effect. • The Positive Feedback Loop: We explain the hypothesis that intimate kissing starts a reinforcing cycle involving microbial exchange and neurobiological reinforcement. When you kiss, your body releases powerful bonding chemicals like oxytocin and endorphins while simultaneously lowering stress hormones like cortisol. • How Microbes Control Your Mood: This enhanced well-being and reduced stress (which makes kissing more desirable) perpetuates the cycle of intimacy. Researchers propose that this microbial sharing may indirectly affect your mood and sociability. The overall result is a self-amplifying cycle where microbial sharing strengthens bonding, and bonding encourages further sharing. • Beyond the Mouth: Learn how the microbes exchanged via kissing can travel to the gut, influencing the powerful microbiota–gut–brain axis. This system links your gut health to your central nervous system, impacting your mood, cognition, and stress response. In fact, studies show that partners who cohabitate tend to have more similar gut microbiomes, and higher relationship satisfaction has been linked to greater gut microbial diversity. We explore how this unique biological connection might explain why physical affection plays a crucial role in relationship maintenance and pair-bond stability. If you’ve ever felt like your partner is ‘part of you,’ this episode will show you the astonishing microscopic truth behind that feeling!

Remco Kort,
A sweet kiss with a bacterial touch: a potential positive feedback loop involved in shaping the oral microbiota,
Evolution and Human Behavior,
Volume 47, Issue 1,
2026,
106777,
ISSN 1090-5138,
https://doi.org/10.1016/j.evolhumbeha....