Cindy & Chris Watts - Toxic Parent Child Relationships

Описание: In this video I'm discussing aspects of Chris Watts ( who killed his wife and children in 2018) relationship with his mother, Cindy Watts ,

and toxic things about her personality.

Toxic parent/child relationships in general, from my experience as well.

and while NO one is to blame for the horrific taking of these lives but Chris Watts, I'm looking at all of the things that contributed to his constant stress and mental state before the murders.

Naturally a husband and wife will have some issues, and stress of married life, bills and children, ...

but I feel that much more was going on inside of Chris, likely dating back to his youth ....

and the pressure to constantly please a toxic mother for her approval...

or be punished in some way... is evident in the relationship between he and his mother..

I feel that many people are stuck thinking stuff like this just comes up in a marriage,

and that his wife Shannan could have possibly put enough stress on him to make him take the lives of his own children, and her...

NO ONE has the power to make anyone else Take lives!!!!

It is the RESPONSIBILITY of the person feeling stressed, triggered, angry, controlled, abused, WHATEVER, to SEEK HELP for those issues, PERIOD.,

NO MATTER WHAT someone else is acting like!!

HIS ACTIONS, choices and FAILURE to take responsibility for his LONG brewing emotional problems, desperate need for approval from his mother and women, unhappiness in his marriage,

HIS lack of emotional intelligence, high levels of covert narcissism/ selfishness, and effective coping skills with the stressors of life and marriage,...

strong desire for whatever boosted his ego more, and narcissistic supply , ( an affair/ mistress) and " SUDDENLY,'" having a problem with his wife's spending, never having spoken up about this before, and ASSERTED HIS POSITION, too needy of her approval, so toxic, he just let her think things were ok...

covert narcissists WILL NOT EVER TELL YOU THEY'RE UPSET OR WHAT YOU DID WRONG,

they will care nothing to speak up, confront, and give you NO CHANCE to work on yourself...

they will only resent, spite, and PLOT on you in mostly passive aggressive and cowardly ways..

and sometimes become deadly...

ALL of this....


among other things he carried, led up to the tragic loss of innocent lives..

NOT one thing. NOT something ANYONE else did or didn't do...

but MANY THINGS...

HE PERSONALLY WAS RESPONSIBLE for facing, addressing, and handling things appropriately in life,

and seeking counsel and training to LEARN how to

assert his needs and feelings, so that he didn't have to feel controlled or lacking in approval of self, respect from others... etc...

and hit the balance of NOT putting himself completely before the lives of others, especially his own children..


but it's generally, something in the marriage is triggering, or brings one to a point where things LONG buried much deeper come up
.. EVEN if the partner did nothing wrong....

and EVEN if the partner IS annoying, controlling, or one feels trapped in their life....

They have a RESPONSIBILITY to cope with this properly, and not let ALL THE WOUNDS, trauma, stress, anger, rage and stuffed feelings from the past or childhood come OUT ALL OVER THEIR PARTNER....

and use that partner because of some annoying characteristics as the SCAPEGOAT for ALL OF THEIR PROBLEMS IN LIFE!!!!

and choose to take human lives, oned own concern children and pregnant wife....as a solution.


If someone can bring themselves to even THINK like that...

then they have had much bigger pyschological issues from the beginning of life...

period.

It's never about ONE thing....

and while we cannot blame anyone else for his actions, his early upbringing, influences, treatment, and being taught to stuff his feelings and that he's not good enough being himself to get approval, to do what someone else wants or be rejected, not get attention, etc...


ALL of that WOULD FACTOR IN TO how he copes with life, stress, relates to women, children, etc..

And it's important that we recognize things like this, how DEEP rooted it usually is....

and how these TOXIC PATTERNS RUN IN FAMILIES, with parents and children.

It might save a life or relationship one day.

and I hope to provide some perspective in this video.


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