Use Your Words: Ethical, Non-Monogamy, Jealousy, and Erotic Honesty.

Описание: What happens when you stop protecting your partner from the truth and start speaking it cleanly, with your body online?

In this episode, I sit down with sexual wellness educator and Ethical Non‑Monogamy (ENM) coach Taylor K. Sparks (founder of ⁠OrganicLoven.com⁠) to unpack how mature intimacy gets built: radical honesty, integrous agreements, and communication that actually lands.

Taylor breaks down ENM umbrellas (open, lifestyle/swinging, polyamory, polygyny/polyandry) and the difference between consent and ethics.

We walk through the Difficult Conversation Formula (what you’re afraid to say → why you’re afraid → what you hope happens), and how to pace change so nobody gets steamrolled.

We reframe jealousy as a somatic signal with a Jealousy Game Plan: self‑soothing tools, mantras, and pacing that keeps connection intact.
We also talk agreements with teeth—clear, measurable, revisable—and why acceptance beats mere “tolerance.”

Taylor also brings body‑honoring pleasure education from her work at Organic Loven: what to look for in lubricants and toys, why ingredients matter, and how to choose products that respect your body (and the planet).
Expect a little spice—biting, spanking, and why experimentation expands your erotic range—grounded in mature, consensual practice.

If you’re ENM‑curious, in the lifestyle, or simply ready to communicate like an adult, this one gives you tools you can use tonight.

Connect with Taylor: https://www.organicloven.com/
IG/TikTok: @organicloven
ENM Relationship Style Quiz - https://www.organicloven.com/quiz
"Say It Like You Mean It” Conversation Deck - https://www.organicloven.com/say-it-deck

Work with James:
1:1 Coaching & Mentorship. Application - https://forms.fillout.com/t/jk67G1Pw52us
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