ماں کی 6 غلطیاں بچوں کو ضدی اور ہڈ دھرم بنا کے رکھ دیتی ہیں اج کی ویڈیو میں ہم بتائیں گے 6 غلطیاں

Описание: Assalam o Alaikum
Aaj ki es video me How To Raise Confident & Assertive Child 6 Tricks To Handle Stubborn Kids 6 Parenting Mistakes ko discuss kia gya hy. Har maa yeh sochti hai ke uska bacha sirf uski mohabbat aur qurbaniyon se uska farma bardar ban jaye ga, lekin asal haqeeqat kuch aur hai. Aksar maaon ki chhoti chhoti ghaltiyan hi woh beej bo deti hain jo bachon ki shakhsiat ko zid aur hatti dharam bana deti hain. Aap ne bhi shayad mehsoos kiya ho ke jitni zyada aap bachon ko samjhati hain, utni hi unki zid barh jati hai. Sawal yeh hai ke woh asal ghaltiyan kaun si hain jo maa ko to chhoti lagti hain lekin bachon ke dil par gehra zakham kar deti hain?
Sabse pehli ghalti jo ek maa karti hai woh hai har waqt chilana aur daantna. Bacha jab maa ki awaaz mein pyar ke bajaye sirf sakhti aur chilahat sunta hai, to uska dil mazaaq ban jata hai. Usay lagta hai ke maa chahe main jitni koshish karun, woh khush nahi hogi. Yeh soch bachon ko zid par majboor kar deti hai. Yaad rakhiye, pyar bhari aik muskaan ya narmi ka aik jumla us asar ko paida karta hai jo daant kar bhi nahi ho sakta. Jo bachay sabse zyada daante jate hain, wohi sabse zyada zid karte hain.
Dusri badi ghalti hai bachon ka doosron se muqabla karna. Jab maa bar bar kehti hai ke "dekho falan bacha kitna acha hai, tum kyun nahi?" to bacha apne dil mein yeh soch leta hai ke meri maa mujhe qabil nahi samajhti. Yeh shikastagi usay zid aur hatti dharam bana deti hai. Har bacha apni soorat aur fitrat mein alag hota hai, usay doosron ke aaine mein dekhna uski shanakht ko mita deta hai. Bacha phir yeh tay kar leta hai ke woh apni zid ko hi apni pehchan banaye ga.
Teesri ghalti maaon ka wada karke poora na karna hai. Bacha maa ki har baat ko sach aur muqaddas manta hai. Jab baar baar usay dhoka milta hai ke jo wada kiya gaya woh pura nahi hua, to uske dil mein bharosa toot jata hai. Phir maa ki koi baat usay maayne nahi rakhti. Yeh hi wo lamha hota hai jab bacha maa ki nasihat ko mazaak samajhne lagta hai aur zid ko apna asal sahara bana leta hai.
Chouthi ghalti hai bachon ko logo ke samne zaleel karna. Jab maa mehfil mein ya rishtedaron ke samne bache ki kamzori ko ujagar karti hai, to bacha andar hi andar toot jata hai. Woh sochta hai ke meri maa ne meri izzat looti, to ab us ki baat kyun sunun? Yeh zakham daanton se bhi gehra hota hai, aur rishte mein aisi deewar bana deta hai jo aasani se nahi girti. Bachay ko samjhaya ja sakta hai, magar sirf tanhaayi aur pyar bhari narmi mein, na ke sab ke samne.
Paanchwin ghalti hai har waqt rok tok aur pabandiyan lagana. Jab maa ka har lafz sirf "mat karo, wahan mat jao, chup raho" ban jaye, to bacha apni zindagi ko qaid mehsoos karta hai. Yeh qaid usay baghawat aur zid ki taraf dhakelti hai. Bacha chhoti si khushi bhi jab poori na kar sake, to usay apni zid ko talwar banana padta hai. Maa yeh samajhti hai ke woh tarbiyat kar rahi hai, lekin asal mein woh zid ki zameen hamaawar kar rahi hoti hai.
Aakhri aur sabse bari ghalti hai bachon ko waqt aur tawajjo na dena. Jab maa har baar kehti hai ke "abhi nahi, baad mein, waqt nahi hai", to bacha apne dil mein yeh nishan bitha leta hai ke meri ahmiyat kam hai. Phir woh maa ki taraf se mooh mod kar kahin aur sukoon dhundhta hai kabhi doston mein, kabhi screen par, kabhi ghalat raaston par. Nabi Kareem ﷺ apni masroofiyat ke bawajood bachon ke liye waqt nikalte the. Agar Allah ke Rasool ﷺ waqt nikal sakte hain to phir hum kis bahane se bach sakte hain?

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