Jesse: Dissociative Life; Sexual Health; Cheating; Betrayal; Crude; Spiritual; Primal; Orgasms

Описание: 11/25/25, Jesse(-Jude Blend?) is concerned about people watching the sex videos we might post…and hiding it from their other half. As someone who’s been cheated on, Jesse does not this, but Jude has serious rules about it that may be prompting this video.

0:10 Jesse and Jude want to put this disclaimer at the start of all sex videos.

Bre and Harper on 1/9/26: We are not the police of the world. Yes, people should be honest…but let them run their lives and we’ll run our life. Continue.

0:50 We’ve added conditions to the Bible definition of adultery based on what the Holy Spirit has shared. Sex with another is not the problem; the betrayal is the problem. Threesomes, polygamy, open relationships where both parties agree and are equal in the decisions are ok because there is no betrayal. No hurt.

But those are hard to make equal due to ingrained rules and feelings. Polygamy is often patriarchal in nature. Not equal.

Even agreed open relationships are hard to make equal. Our only: he had a few other partners to start. Harper especially wanted to hear about his extracurriculars and he enjoyed telling us about his prowess, but when we (JJ) decided to go out on a date with an ex, he wasn’t really ok with it and would say things hateful, jealous, comparing himself to my ex.

So he said he was ok with open, but he really wasn’t. Maybe he had an ingrained rule that it was ok for him but not for someone who was supposed to be his. Or maybe it is ok for him, the man stud, but not for his women whores?

So his insecurity and competition impacted things. People are complex.

Going behind your significant other’s back, hiding stuff from them, is where the problem lies. But people have hang ups about sex…ingrained rules…that complicate matters too.

We’re not saying we’re perfect. Jesse wants to be treasured, but we don’t always treasure. And the more we find out about a person’s irrationalities, the less I (Bre) treasure them…and the more I want them gone. That’s how it got with this boyfriend.

He was smart enough to realize that and replaced us with a side piece. Or maybe we were the side piece all along and he was lying. Playing a game.

1:15 Inappropriate is ok if your person agrees and likes it.

2:10 It is our belief based on conversations with the Holy Spirit that God did not prescribe the rules on sex in the Bible. These are human rules based on control and patriarchy. We reject any rule like this that is meant to control. The only rules in the Good Books that came from God are those based on love and not hurting others.

Consensual adult sex without betrayal hurts no one.

2:50 Society’s patriarchy view on sex: men are celebrated in the sex competition; women are called whores. Equality is needed. Too extreme on either side?

3:05 Jude impacts our behavior here. Many, many sex rules. Bible and society. Carved into our being. More than any other type of rule.

3:45 Is Jude autistic?
3:55 Jude 1/9/26: I don’t want dirty people ever touching me. And I don’t want to touch dirty things. Touch can be nice, but only when I’m very relaxed…and I’m not that way often.

5:30 Harper is primal, crude. Fan of Adam Sandler, Tenacious D, Flight of the Conchords “Too Many Dicks,” Garfunkel and Oates

6:10 Jude is spiritual and doesn’t like touch. Still dreams of a soulmate but has old irrational defaults ingrained. “That’s the road to my husband’s house.” He’s been with his 2nd wife for 30 years.

7:10 We chose men and friends based on our broken brain. Ignored red flags (disrespectful hurtful words and actions)…and did similar disrespectful hurtful words and actions in retaliation. Chaos. We are trying to stay away from people who get in this cycle of hurt with us. We will warn them what they do that hurt us. Give them a chance to tell us things we do that hurt them and try to stop. But if the cycle continues, we reduce or stop contact now.

8:20 Orgasms as a gift from God. "La petite mort" Spiritual + primal

9:20 Overruled. No disclaimer. Just be honest with your significant others. If you’re not, you’re a tool. Don’t jack off to us. We’re an old lady. 53-years-old. Lots of loose skin. Gross. Go hug your wife.

10:40 Bre on 1/9/26: We’re not looking very hard. But it’s ok for us to dream that he’s out there.

11:25 It’s fun to take boudoir pictures and feel sexy, even if you’re married as long as your spouse is aware and ok with it. Communicate! Cooperate! Share! And look and have fun together.

12:50 Harper’s silly crude video:    • Harper: Dissociative Life; Dirty Minded Li...  

13:00 We are not doing a stupid disclaimer.

13:30 Our sons don’t like hearing about sex at all in relation to us. Understandably. But talking about sexual health is important. Gets rid of the shame and guilt.

14:00 It’s hard not to have guilt and shame, but not talking about sexual health as adults can lead to abuse, disfunction, and irrationalities staying behind closed doors.