Why Supercommunicators ACE Relationships (And how you can too)

Описание: Ever been told “you never listen” or “you don’t get what I mean”?
You might not need therapy—you might just need this one skill.

In today’s video, I’m sharing a 3-part formula I teach my own clients to turn surface-level conversations into meaningful connection—based on what Pulitzer Prize-winning author Charles Duhigg calls the Supercommunicator effect.
🧠 Whether you're trying to improve your relationship, get through to your partner, or just stop miscommunicating—you’re going to want this framework in your back pocket.

🧩 What You’ll Learn:
✔ The 3 motives behind every conversation
✔ Why “The Pause” is the secret weapon of emotional intelligence
✔ How to read tone, body language, and hidden signals
✔ 4 types of questions Supercommunicators always ask
✔ How to diagnose, dissect, and debrief like a therapist

📌 Timestamps:
00:00- Are You a Supercommunicator?
01:54- Diagnose the Conversation
03:16- Dissect Nonverbal Cues
04:37- Debrief with the Right Questions
05:46- Four Types of Questions That Go Deeper

🚨 KEY TOOL: THE PAUSE
Throughout all three steps, the pause is the superpower.
It prevents knee-jerk reactions.
It gives you space to reframe.
It signals respect and consideration.
Use it:
Before responding to tough feedback.
When decoding unclear motives.
When emotions feel high.

When you Diagnose the motive, Dissect the delivery, and Debrief with thoughtful questions—you stop talking past each other, and finally start talking to each other.
This is what Supercommunicators do—and you can too.

Hi, I’m Jourdan Travers, LCSW, therapist & Clinical Director at Awake Therapy.
💬 I help people heal relationships—starting with how they communicate.
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If you or someone you know is in danger, please call 911 or visit your local emergency room. Our videos are not a substitute for working with a licensed mental health professional.

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