Unlovable by Design – Why INFJs and INTJs Push People Away

Описание: What if the thing that makes you hard to reach… was designed to protect you?

INFJs and INTJs often carry a paradox—deep inner lives, profound emotional insight, yet a consistent pattern of pushing people away. This video explores the quiet defense mechanisms behind these types: how they build walls in the name of self-preservation, and how those walls eventually become prisons.

If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, emotionally unreachable, or tired of being “admired but not known”—this is for you.

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⏳ Chapters & Timestamps

00:00 – Introduction
03:13 – Why INFJs and INTJs Seem Hard to Love
07:57 – INFJ Defense Mechanism: The Compassionate Ghost
12:40 – INTJ Defense Mechanism: The Fortress Strategist
17:22 – When You Want Love But Can’t Let It In
21:35 – Breaking the Design
24:31 – Final Reflection

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