He never compliments you or plans dates. But he IS showing love. Here's how.

Описание: You're giving him an F in love. But you're grading him in the wrong language.For years, I was convinced my husband didn't know how to love me well.

I wanted:

Him to plan romantic dates
Verbal compliments and appreciation
Love notes and thoughtful surprises
Deep emotional conversations
Him to notice when I did something special
And he rarely did those things.So in my mind, he was failing at loving me.

But here's what I completely missed:

Every single morning, he warmed up my car in winter. I took it for granted.
He worked hard to provide for our family. I thought "that's just his job."
He fixed everything that broke...immediately. I thought "that's just what people do."

He made sure I always felt safe. I thought that was automatic.
He was physically affectionate. I dismissed it as "not deep enough."I was so busy looking for his love in MY language that I completely missed the love he was giving me in HIS language.And we were both feeling unloved.In this video, I'm breaking down the difference between his love language and your expectations...and showing you how to finally SEE the love he's been showing you all along.In this video, you'll learn:

✨ The 5 love languages (quick overview)
✨ How men typically show love that women miss
✨ Why you're both trying but both feeling unloved
✨ The story of Michelle and her husband (this will open your eyes)
✨ How to identify HIS primary love language
✨ The critical shift from "he doesn't love me right" to "he DOES love me...I need to see it"
✨ Practical examples of reframing how you see his loveCommon ways men show love that wives overlook:

They provide (working hard, paying bills, ensuring security)
They protect (keeping you safe, checking the house, maintaining your car)
They fix and solve (handling problems, removing obstacles)
They share their space (wanting you near, including you)
They show physical affection (reaching for your hand, hugs, closeness)

Here's the truth: Your husband IS showing you love. Maybe not in the way romance movies show it. Maybe not how your girlfriends' husbands show it. Maybe not how you WISH he would.But he's showing you love in the best way he knows how.And when you start SEEING that love and appreciating it, everything changes.You stop feeling unloved. He stops feeling inadequate. And your marriage becomes warmer and more connected.

This doesn't mean you can't also teach him YOUR love language. You absolutely can and should!But it DOES mean you stop dismissing or minimizing the love he's ALREADY showing you while you wait for him to show it differently.The shift: FROM "He doesn't love me the way I want" TO "He DOES love me...I need to recognize HOW he shows it"
This revelation completely transformed my marriage. And I believe it will transform yours too.

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